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Sorry but I think you are being a little silly as well. Everyone is entitled to getting engaged and getting married. It happens to the best of us- life moves right along. I know that money gets very tight with weddings, but you may just have to plan ahead.

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I know what you mean, to be honest. I'd probably feel the same way. At least you'll still be first, but I wish for you that she at least waited 1-2 months longer...just my opinion. (Because I know I'd feel the same way....)

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Posted by gina409

i know i asked for advice and i truly appreciate it but i feel like u guys think im just a jealous friend who needs the spotlight all the time when i cant stress enough how far that is from the truth.she is my friend and i love her am i am happy 4 her and will do whatever she needs from me to make her day great,i just wanted to no if it was normal to be a little upset but i guess its not....thanks again for the help

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Just remember---this is the internet and its hard to read your emotions and stuff thru words on a screen. People will only take what you say at face value by what you type. When I read your posts---especially saying how you felt a little hurt & betrayed....it did come off a little bit like you wanted the spot light on you and only you for awhile. Is that how you meant it to come off? Of course not!! But we are all just reading what you put and interpreting it as we see fit. So don't take offense if you think things are being thrown at you.

Being new around here -- it takes awhile to see how it can be when you post a question asking for advice and stuff. I always tell people that even though it s a 'wedding planning' site--you have to grow a 'thick skin' around here so as to not immediately get upset when people say things to you that you might not like.

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being a newbie i just didnt want to seem like a horrible person so u guys on her only know me as that..i love coming on her and getting all the great advice and tips and i dont want to ruin that but i just needed advice and i appreciate all you guys have given..thanks again

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trust me, no one is going to read your future posts and think 'that's the girl who wants the spotlight all on her'! I've had people disagree with me plenty on this site, some more vicious than others but that's the way of LIW. Don't be upset with the responses or how you think people view you, it will not be held against you in a court of law (or for your history of LIW experiences)!