Need advice and opinions I am at my wits end!!!
Okay so it is 12 days b4 the wedding. I am so angry right now!
Here goes. I used to live in Brooklyn till I was 3 yrs old, and had a friend I kept in touch with and then we lost touch and then got back in touch with each other.
We do not get to see each other a lot , I live in LI she is in Brooklyn and does not drive, etc.; I invited her to the wedding- and her whole family. The reponse date was 2-26, I still have not heard from her then. She called me and told me she felt funny becuase she did not know anyone at the wedding. I told her she can bring a date or a good friend with her. She also was told she can stay at the hotel with me the nite b4 Fh can pick her up in Brooklyn or she can take the train and I will pick her up and also she can go to out of town luncheon etc. I did not hear anything. I have been bad at returning phone call lately , I have been so busy with the house and the wedding. I have been trying to clean out the house, my mom and dad have both passed away. So this has been consuming a lot of time. I e mailed her that we will pick her up etc. I do not hear anything, not a word. I get 5 emails today telling me I never call her back, I never e mailed her- I did! , and that I do not make her feel special becuase she does not drive and does not have a boyfriend. i have friends that do not have boyfriends and spent time with them, and also friends that do not drive either. What did I do wrong here? I have been more then acomadiataing, and think this is very nervy to even accuse me of this! Help how would u handle this? I even sent an email telling her all of this that I apologized for not calling as much but I have been so busy and also about how I emailed her etc. I do not think this is fair to do this to me 12 days b4 the wedding! I think she was looking for an out not to come. By no way have i been a bridezilla, at least I do not think so. Opinions? Did I do the right thing ?![]()
Here goes. I used to live in Brooklyn till I was 3 yrs old, and had a friend I kept in touch with and then we lost touch and then got back in touch with each other.
We do not get to see each other a lot , I live in LI she is in Brooklyn and does not drive, etc.; I invited her to the wedding- and her whole family. The reponse date was 2-26, I still have not heard from her then. She called me and told me she felt funny becuase she did not know anyone at the wedding. I told her she can bring a date or a good friend with her. She also was told she can stay at the hotel with me the nite b4 Fh can pick her up in Brooklyn or she can take the train and I will pick her up and also she can go to out of town luncheon etc. I did not hear anything. I have been bad at returning phone call lately , I have been so busy with the house and the wedding. I have been trying to clean out the house, my mom and dad have both passed away. So this has been consuming a lot of time. I e mailed her that we will pick her up etc. I do not hear anything, not a word. I get 5 emails today telling me I never call her back, I never e mailed her- I did! , and that I do not make her feel special becuase she does not drive and does not have a boyfriend. i have friends that do not have boyfriends and spent time with them, and also friends that do not drive either. What did I do wrong here? I have been more then acomadiataing, and think this is very nervy to even accuse me of this! Help how would u handle this? I even sent an email telling her all of this that I apologized for not calling as much but I have been so busy and also about how I emailed her etc. I do not think this is fair to do this to me 12 days b4 the wedding! I think she was looking for an out not to come. By no way have i been a bridezilla, at least I do not think so. Opinions? Did I do the right thing ?
