My fh had a talk with my moh. She's been out of work since Feb. I was waiting for her to come to me. He had a nice long talk with her about the wedding. She told him that she won't be able to be in the wedding party but won't miss the wedding for the world. I understand that she can't do it but wish she told me....he told me when I got home. How would it look if I ask someone else when its less than 6 months before the wedding.
I don't think it would look bad...I wish that I could have had 3 mohs but I obviously couldn't...if you would have had a 2nd choice anyway I would ask...I think someone would be honored to be your moh. I actually didn't know if I was going to make one of my friends a matron of honor b/c my sister is the maid of honor and I didn't decided till 10 months after I was engaged. The peopel in your BP are your friends or family they will understand & I think step into the role no problem.
People would understand. Find someone in the Bp that you are close too and explain the situation. They will be thrilled to be asked.
i have 2 sisters and a friend in the bp. i can't pick one sister of the other. my friend, she's a nice person and all but it seems i have to work around her schedule. she doesn't seem to comprise. i hope this wont be a problem
I think a close friend or sister would understand.
Posted by jennandrob
Gail, isn't one of your sisters married? You could always ask her to me your Matron on Honor, and your other sister your MOH.
Maybe that could work instead of asking someone new.
