fh's mom passed away 4 yrs ago, she was divorced tho to fh's father. fh's dad has a gf though. ithey have been dating like 2 yrs and now live together but are prob not getting married. is that mean of me if i want fh's dad to escort his grandma into the reception instead? one of my bm's had a similar situation and they didnt escort the gf's and bf's. turned out they broke up the following week!
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i would have fh dad walk his mom down...i thinks its the right thing to do..do u want her walking down too ?maybe someone else can or fh dad can do two trips but imo unless u anf fh r really close to her there is no need for someone to walk her down hth
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i would have fh dad walk his mom down...i thinks its the right thing to do..do u want her walking down too ?maybe someone else can or fh dad can do two trips but imo unless u anf fh r really close to her there is no need for someone to walk her down hth
well the thing is, its not his dads mom. its fh's moms mom. but they are still close. fh's grandma is VERY close to fh as well.
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i would have fh dad walk his mom down...i thinks its the right thing to do..do u want her walking down too ?maybe someone else can or fh dad can do two trips but imo unless u anf fh r really close to her there is no need for someone to walk her down hth
well the thing is, its not his dads mom. its fh's moms mom. but they are still close. fh's grandma is VERY close to fh as well.
if they r still close i would still have him walk her down...the grooms grandma should def be walked down by a close relative...do u think fh dad gf will mind?has she hinted at walking down?
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i would have fh dad walk his mom down...i thinks its the right thing to do..do u want her walking down too ?maybe someone else can or fh dad can do two trips but imo unless u anf fh r really close to her there is no need for someone to walk her down hth
well the thing is, its not his dads mom. its fh's moms mom. but they are still close. fh's grandma is VERY close to fh as well.
if they r still close i would still have him walk her down...the grooms grandma should def be walked down by a close relative...do u think fh dad gf will mind?has she hinted at walking down?
welll she just sent me an email asking what color my bm's and mom are wearing so they can blend so i think she wants to take the 'mother' role. but fh is dancing with his grandma so i feel like his dad should escort her and not the gf.
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if they r dancing then she should def walk with fh dad..i think ur best bet is for fh to just ask his dad on the dl just so u knowwhat she is thinking and u can go from there..but im going to assume she will understand and it does not take away that she is important or anything like that
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if they r dancing then she should def walk with fh dad..i think ur best bet is for fh to just ask his dad on the dl just so u knowwhat she is thinking and u can go from there..but im going to assume she will understand and it does not take away that she is important or anything like that
i hope it works out!! ahh, as pathetic as it sounds, i have been stressing about this lol
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What if the three of them come in together?
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What if the three of them come in together?
well as bad as this sounds, if they break up, im gonna have her in pics and on the video. i really wanted the people announed who i know will always be there. i guess i can do 3, ahh.
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if they r dancing then she should def walk with fh dad..i think ur best bet is for fh to just ask his dad on the dl just so u knowwhat she is thinking and u can go from there..but im going to assume she will understand and it does not take away that she is important or anything like that
i hope it works out!! ahh, as pathetic as it sounds, i have been stressing about this lol
well of course u dont want to offend anyone and its not pathetic its a sigh u r a good person and want to try to make everyone happy...would u consider having someone else walking her or fh dad doing double duty or will u not be having her walk at all
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If it were me, I would have FFIL escort FH's grandmother, even though it's not his own mother. Don't feel guilty...blood is thicker than water.
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if they r dancing then she should def walk with fh dad..i think ur best bet is for fh to just ask his dad on the dl just so u knowwhat she is thinking and u can go from there..but im going to assume she will understand and it does not take away that she is important or anything like that
i hope it works out!! ahh, as pathetic as it sounds, i have been stressing about this lol
well of course u dont want to offend anyone and its not pathetic its a sigh u r a good person and want to try to make everyone happy...would u consider having someone else walking her or fh dad doing double duty or will u not be having her walk at all
well, i feel mean saying this but i would prefer her not to be walking down in the Church and announed during the reception, but i dont want to cause a war lol. bc these pics r gonna be around forever, and they may end up breaking up.
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If it were me, I would have FFIL escort FH's grandmother, even though it's not his own mother. Don't feel guilty...blood is thicker than water.
k, sounds good to me haha.
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if they r dancing then she should def walk with fh dad..i think ur best bet is for fh to just ask his dad on the dl just so u knowwhat she is thinking and u can go from there..but im going to assume she will understand and it does not take away that she is important or anything like that
i hope it works out!! ahh, as pathetic as it sounds, i have been stressing about this lol
well of course u dont want to offend anyone and its not pathetic its a sigh u r a good person and want to try to make everyone happy...would u consider having someone else walking her or fh dad doing double duty or will u not be having her walk at all
well, i feel mean saying this but i would prefer her not to be walking down in the Church and announed during the reception, but i dont want to cause a war lol. bc these pics r gonna be around forever, and they may end up breaking up.
i agree with u 100 percent..i think she should understand and if she doesnt have fh grandma explain it to her...noone can say no to a grandma
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if they r dancing then she should def walk with fh dad..i think ur best bet is for fh to just ask his dad on the dl just so u knowwhat she is thinking and u can go from there..but im going to assume she will understand and it does not take away that she is important or anything like that
i hope it works out!! ahh, as pathetic as it sounds, i have been stressing about this lol
well of course u dont want to offend anyone and its not pathetic its a sigh u r a good person and want to try to make everyone happy...would u consider having someone else walking her or fh dad doing double duty or will u not be having her walk at all
well, i feel mean saying this but i would prefer her not to be walking down in the Church and announed during the reception, but i dont want to cause a war lol. bc these pics r gonna be around forever, and they may end up breaking up.
i agree with u 100 percent..i think she should understand and if she doesnt have fh grandma explain it to her...noone can say no to a grandma
