ok-so I know my wedding is a good time away but I have been having some issues. I already for the most part know who is my MOH (my sister) and my BMs. But, FH has a sister. That I didnt intend on putting in the BP. For reasons-and they are good. FH and her had HUGE problems growing up and it wasnt just regular sis/bro problems-it went a lot further. We arent exactly 'friends' and the only time we talk is at family dinners and when she comes to visit-we dont go out together so do I make her a BM? FH says he doesnt care and would prefer me not to-but I feel like the FI are trying to bring it up to me nicely. What should I do? Save myself the aggrevation of listening to FI and FSIL complain that I didnt put her in 'her own brothers wedding party' though it will be the same amount of aggrevation to put her in
grrr
WedHead
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That should make things all the easier, no? If FH doesn't want her in, and you're up in the air, and she's not including you in hers, I think you're safe to leave her out. How can she demand to be in yours if she didn't ask you to be in hers (even though that sounds like a blessing!)
PegaLega
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I didnt even look at it like that!
BJandDan
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I see it as this.... your wedding = your choices...... not hers.
Maybride07
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Is your FI In her wedding?
DAVALJO2
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I wouldn't put her in the bridal party just to please others. Your bridal party should consist of friends who are dear to you.
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Posted by CrystalAshley
Is your FI In her wedding?
when she said that i better make her a bridesmaid-the convo started with my brother is of course going to be a GM and I am trying to make room for you-i told her it was fine, it wasnt necessary-and she said well....blah blahbalh
