Need Help w/Bachelorette Party Ideas - NO PEEKING ROBEYMUSE!!!

Hey girls, I need some help. I am trying to plan a bachelorette party here in NY for Robeymuse (she is also having one in St.Louis), but the main problem is that one of the bridesmaids is only 17. However, she looks older and is very mature for her age. Do you know of any places that we could go to? Possibly even ones that let you in at 18? We still want to go out and have a good time with her included...any suggestions?

Thanks!!

ETA: also, does anyone have the links to websites where you can buy the sashes and things for the bachelorette to wear? thanks again!!

Party city has fantastic things. And really cute invites!!!

I am not sure of places though. What about just going to dinner? Or a day at the spa then dinner???

BUMPING for the weekenders

please help!!