need hugs- marriage woes...

my husband and i really havent been getting along lately. its been bad. at first i thought it was marriage adjustment but now im not so sure.. we went out for dinner and drinks and i brought up buying a house in long beach and expenses and he got so nasty with me.. it turned out into a big brawl over nothing... yes sometimes i can be controlling- - ive always had to be like that growing up i had to be incontrol- my parents ure the hell werent..- and he throws it back in my face.. saying i always have to be in control and he doesnt have a say in anything when thats not true...
i didnt want it to become a fight but yet again it does. i just feel sometimes we are opposite people and sometimes if feel like we made a mistake.... i mean im no angel.. i blow up at things and i am stubborn but we had a long talk about this and I really thought we would be able to move past it...its just getting to the point where i think we both made a mistake. i HATE to say it 6 months into the marriage but i dotn think itll get any better and we dont even have a house or kids...

I honestly dont want any advice- im just so sad right now... I just need hugs!!!!!!

i just wanted to tell you that the first few months of marriage were really hard for my DH and I bc it's a big adjustment, so just keep that in mind

My husband and I have hit some bumps in the road too...marriage is alot of work!

i think its beyond bumps to be honest.. and im not just saying that.. i think we just have to many things working against us..

Hang in There!!!!

All of my married friends remind us how much work marriage is and how the first year is always hardest.....
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Karen
Karen Keep The Faith Within Yourself

Have you thought about counseling?

sorry

i hope you are feeling a little better

the first few months are always an adjustment.