Need opinion with hurt feelings!Long and Updated
Okay! The drama has passed. Discussed it with FH and I overreacted. Jimmysbride was right why would I want to be in it or care if any of my brothers or sisters were asked. He's an A$$ and I'll leave it up to everyone else to realize it. As for her who cares what she does right?
Hi girls yes Im back venting again! I am one of 4 kids(Im the oldest)my brother and I grew up together and then my parents split and had another brother and sister but they are 15years younger then us(you'll understand why Im telling you this in a minute). My brother and I have never been bestfriends as brothers and sisters usually aren't, but once my dad passed away a few years ago, he's been a real a$$. Selfish and self absorbed doesn't even begin to explain him. Well he found a girl who is just as bad if not worse. The first time I met her she sat and told me all about her ex-boyfriend that she left for my brother and how much she loved him and how great he was! The second time I met her she realized that growing up in the same neighborhood I happened to not only know the ex but I was best friends with his sister when I was younger. Well she proceeds to bring out a photo album of the two of them together and flip through it with me--AKWARD!
Then my brother through her a birthday party and spent unbelievable money on her to have her get drunk and try to get into her car, which my brother refused to let her do so she stood up and told everyone what a piece of S*** my brother was and what a loser he was, etc. etc. etc. Then when my brothers birthday comes around she gets a 6ft. hero and invites all of her friends to their house and tells his friends the party is the following weekend so no one for him showed up and he calls me that morning to invite me.
There is plenty more but I think you get the gyst. Oh yeah, one other thing. They had an engagement party and only invited her family not ours and her friends and co-workers. My brother had 5 of his friends there(they invited 75-100 people). I was not invited, my kids, my brother and sister, my mother--no one. Then I get told it was just for friends and the bridal party. Well on Christmas she brings out the photo album with all of her family at the party.
Here's the hurt feelings part:
I was never told about the wedding, never asked to be in it, no one in my family was. Until I told a relative I wasn't going if atleast one of my older kids were asked to be in the bridal party(they were very close to him). All of the sudden out of the blue I get a phone call from the witch with a tone in her voice as if someone was twisting her arm. She wanted to know if my daughter could be in the wedding. The dress was already picked out and everyone already ordered there's. She bought a cheap gown that was being discontinued, could I get her down there to be fitted. Then she tells me the dress will be discontinued in 12 hours!! I ask her who was in her BP and she tells me all her friends and now your daughter. I ask her who is in my brothers BP and she tells me at first she doesn't know then tells me his friends and Im sure he's gonna want your son. OMG, is it me or should they both have asked at least one of his sisters or brother to be in the BP. I was disappointed I'll be honest but asking my daughter is fine but my brother was close to my other sister before my dad passed and my little brother is only 10 but idolizes my A$$ of a brother. Is it me? I was up furious all night over this stupidity. I already took her for the dress because I wouldn't hurt my daughters feelings since she was excited to be asked but even the dress is inappropriate for my 14yr. to wear. I don't even want to go to this wedding now! He's never even discussed any of his plans with anyone in his family except to tell us who he's not inviting.![]()
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Hi girls yes Im back venting again! I am one of 4 kids(Im the oldest)my brother and I grew up together and then my parents split and had another brother and sister but they are 15years younger then us(you'll understand why Im telling you this in a minute). My brother and I have never been bestfriends as brothers and sisters usually aren't, but once my dad passed away a few years ago, he's been a real a$$. Selfish and self absorbed doesn't even begin to explain him. Well he found a girl who is just as bad if not worse. The first time I met her she sat and told me all about her ex-boyfriend that she left for my brother and how much she loved him and how great he was! The second time I met her she realized that growing up in the same neighborhood I happened to not only know the ex but I was best friends with his sister when I was younger. Well she proceeds to bring out a photo album of the two of them together and flip through it with me--AKWARD!
Then my brother through her a birthday party and spent unbelievable money on her to have her get drunk and try to get into her car, which my brother refused to let her do so she stood up and told everyone what a piece of S*** my brother was and what a loser he was, etc. etc. etc. Then when my brothers birthday comes around she gets a 6ft. hero and invites all of her friends to their house and tells his friends the party is the following weekend so no one for him showed up and he calls me that morning to invite me.
There is plenty more but I think you get the gyst. Oh yeah, one other thing. They had an engagement party and only invited her family not ours and her friends and co-workers. My brother had 5 of his friends there(they invited 75-100 people). I was not invited, my kids, my brother and sister, my mother--no one. Then I get told it was just for friends and the bridal party. Well on Christmas she brings out the photo album with all of her family at the party.
Here's the hurt feelings part:
I was never told about the wedding, never asked to be in it, no one in my family was. Until I told a relative I wasn't going if atleast one of my older kids were asked to be in the bridal party(they were very close to him). All of the sudden out of the blue I get a phone call from the witch with a tone in her voice as if someone was twisting her arm. She wanted to know if my daughter could be in the wedding. The dress was already picked out and everyone already ordered there's. She bought a cheap gown that was being discontinued, could I get her down there to be fitted. Then she tells me the dress will be discontinued in 12 hours!! I ask her who was in her BP and she tells me all her friends and now your daughter. I ask her who is in my brothers BP and she tells me at first she doesn't know then tells me his friends and Im sure he's gonna want your son. OMG, is it me or should they both have asked at least one of his sisters or brother to be in the BP. I was disappointed I'll be honest but asking my daughter is fine but my brother was close to my other sister before my dad passed and my little brother is only 10 but idolizes my A$$ of a brother. Is it me? I was up furious all night over this stupidity. I already took her for the dress because I wouldn't hurt my daughters feelings since she was excited to be asked but even the dress is inappropriate for my 14yr. to wear. I don't even want to go to this wedding now! He's never even discussed any of his plans with anyone in his family except to tell us who he's not inviting.
