Need opinions please....

My original idea for colors was my sister (MOH) in burgundy, my Jr. BM in rose and my flowergirl in ivory with pink (to match my dress). My FSIL doesnt want her daughter (FG) in ivory and pink. She is saying she will get dirty or ruin the dress or something. So instead of fighting with her I am trying to figure out what colors to put the FG and Jr. BM in. Maybe rose for both of them or everyone in burgundy. Any suggestions would really be appreciated.

ok, needless to say,that's a dumb reason, but I understand wher you're comign from. SOmetiems it esier to not argue. I did liek teh your orignal ide though.

I would say Rose for the kids & Burgendy for the MOH. I take it you arne't having any other Bms. Is rose ok, by MOH?

Burgundy might be too much for a FG, especially if she is tiny.

i really like your original idea

maybe do a burgundy and pink combo and include the ivory in the flowers? dunno...

Either, tuff. FG all over the how light is in white and ovpry and there has been no problems?

What about the the little ones in burgundy and the MOH in rose?

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Posted by NYCHICK

Your FSIL is a real riot. when has she been to a wedding and the fG did not wear some version of white. They are supposed to match the bride. Poeple are too strange. I like your idea of rose for both of them.

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While I agree that the FSIL is a riot, at best, I don't think the FG's *have* to match the bride. I myself *really dislike* the 'mini-bride' FG look and refused to look at any white or ivory dresses.

Personally I think you should do as you please...but if you don't feel like arguing your compromise sounds good.