Need quick advice..would you be mad if

Sunny Posted: Jul 26, 2003 03:04 PM

Need quick advice..would you be mad if

I was really sick last night and had to stay home. I fell asleep about 11:30- 12.

I woke up at 1:30 and fh was not here- he went out. I was so mad- he got home about 3am. Would this **** you off?

Shouldn't he have been here?

NovemberSue Posted: Jul 26, 2003 03:08 PM

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I guess he felt that you weren't feeling well and would be sleeping so he would go out with some friends. If you had a high fever or something and it was something serious,then it would bother me.
Otherwise,don't worry about it.
When you aren't well,you need your rest.
Feel better.

Sunny Posted: Jul 26, 2003 03:11 PM

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Thanks. We just brawled. I am so mad(even if I shouldn't be

JuneBabyBride Posted: Jul 26, 2003 03:12 PM

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I would be mad b/c I get mad easily, but that doesn't mean you should it's your choice, I'd say if your pmsing too, then go for it, if not just get some rest, feel better and make him cater to you!!

NovemberSue Posted: Jul 26, 2003 03:12 PM

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He probably wanted to go out with his friends when you were sleeping and not feeling well because he doesn't want to miss time with you when you are up and about. We tend to get a little more sensitive when we are under the weather.
I'm sure he didn't mean to upset you.
I'm sure he would much rather spend his time with you all the time. Feel better.

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 26, 2003 05:18 PM

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hmmmmm. I would be mad If he wanted to go out he could have gone another time when you didn't need him JMO, not trying to fuel the fire....but I would feel bad about it.

But, try not to get mad.... it will not help you feel better

xjulietx Posted: Jul 26, 2003 05:20 PM

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I would be mad. But then again, you never know if he came in to you and said anything that you don't remember because you were half asleep (just a guess)

wenndypoo Posted: Jul 26, 2003 05:24 PM

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I woudl definitley be mad! Your home sick and he's out having a good time?! That's inconsiderate! What if you needed something, like juice?! Or tissues?! Or tylenol?!

(hope I'm not adding fuel to your fire...... )

Sunny Posted: Jul 26, 2003 05:59 PM

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Thanks Wendy!

(No offense to anyone else)

But I needed someone to agree with me.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Jul 26, 2003 06:07 PM

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I'd be pretty mad too.
On top of the fact that you weren't feeling well and may have needed him, you had to wake up and not know where the Hell he is.
Yet ANOTHER example of just how different men and women are.

Sunny Posted: Jul 26, 2003 06:10 PM

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exactly! I had a pretty good guess where he was, but he did not leave a note and he left his pager here.

kmcwed Posted: Jul 26, 2003 07:05 PM

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I'd be upset, too.

I would have at least expected him to wake me up and ask me if I would mind if he went out.

I think it sounds a little immature on his part And to not bring his pager, and not let you know where he is, well that's just inconsiderate. What if you developed a fever or felt worse? How would you get in touch with him?

Maybe it's just me because I'm a baby when I don't feel well, and I want someone around.

I'd tell him I was hurt by it, but I wouldn't make it a HUGE issue. Hopefully he'll think twice next time.