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Need some advice! (long)

shelzyp Posted:

Need some advice! (long)

My FH and I were asked to be sponsors for his brothers daughter at her christining, as well as the baby's aunt on the mother's side.

When FH's sister asked who was the godparents, people heve not told her, even the babies parents.

It came out yesterday that she has godparents and my FH told him that he was and so was the mother's sister. He neglected to tell her that I was also a godparent. SHe was very upset that she was not told, and that everyone is making thsi a big federal secret.

She is not going to the christening, since it is in Bufalo, and she can't get off of work But I told my FH that he needs to tell her that I am also a godparent, becasue when she finds out, she is going to be even more ****ed, since he neglected to tell her that.

My FH and his mom say that the baby's parents should tell her. (Which I think they should have told her when we were asked)

Since he told 1/2 the story shouldn't my FH have to tell her all of it!!!!

Please advise!!!!
Samanthas Mom Posted:

Re: Need some advice! (long)

I dont think your FH has to do the telling but that is just MO
since, your FH isnt the one who chose the godparents/sponsors etc....
the parents did
the parents of the child should tell
shelzyp Posted:

Re: Need some advice! (long)

My concern is that her told only 1/2 of the story, because he was scared to tell her I was a godparent also.

Sassy Posted:

Re: Need some advice! (long)

I agree that the parent's should've told, but if FH was going to tell her anything at all, he should've said everything, and not left the fact of you being godmother out. JMO. Good Luck.

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