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Need some help and prayers girls

cherish83 Posted:

Need some help and prayers girls

Sorry in advance that this is way long. But thanks for those that bare with me.

Okay, so here's the story:

I dont know if you girls remember that I mentioned FH was having stomach pains and we took him to the hospital. It ended up not being appendicitis. So that was good news. He had a parasite. We got the bill yesterday and called the emergency medicaid number on the back of the bill. The lady who answered the phone said he doesnt qualify because you have to be a non citizen. Sorry but that pis ses me off!! I dont know if thats entirely true though because i know someone who got it. Does anyone have any info on that.

Additionally, Since he had a parasite, the doctor ordered him to stay out of work for a few more days. So in the end he was out of work for 2 weeks because of all this. HE called his boss to let him know when he would be able to return. The boss told him to take 2 extra days. So when Brian returns the day he told him to, the chef told him he never said that and since he was a no call no show for 2 days, he was fired... Our rationing is that the chef was pissed that he was out for 2 weeks, but since we had documentation as to why, he couldnt fire him, so he schemed on Brian.

So back to square one girls. He's been going on interviews for the past 2 weeks. He's in the process of getting his gaming license so he can work at Yonkers. If the license goes through he's getting the job there. But we dont want to get all excited because the way our luck is, that won't happen.

Does anyone know of any openings in a kitchen SOMEWHERE??? ANYWHERE???
Or of any job agencies that place those for restauraunts (kitchen work)?

Sorry this is long girls. This why I havent been on all that much like I used to. Just so much going on that I havent been very wedding happy!
KitWisdom Posted:

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Oh no! How horrible!!! I don’t understand about him not qualifying…he has to be a non-citizen to get aid?

Anyway lots of of and for you.
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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I'm so sorry, that s*cks. And, it is ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS that he'd get help if he weren't a citizen.... that pisses me off, A LOT. It's complete bullsh1t.

I really hope that he gets his gaming license!!!

And, it will work out.
RadiantBride Posted:

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Wow so sorry to hear about that.
I dont know about possible jobs for him but if you do a search on head hunters you should be able to find some.
About the medicaid, i dont think that is true. You guys should call back so you dont get stuck paying the bill. If that were the case no citizen would have emergency medicare which makes absolutely no sense.
You and FH will definitley be in my
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

I'm so sorry, that s*cks. And, it is ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS that he'd get help if he weren't a citizen.... that pisses me off, A LOT. It's complete bullsh1t.

I really hope that he gets his gaming license!!!

And, it will work out.




Yup!! You believe that crappola!!
rahana316 Posted:

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They lied to him at this office and caused him to get fired??? He should sue their asses!! He HAS medical bills stating that he was sick. They can't fire you over **** like that. ***??

Stuff like that annoys me. That is so unfair and uncalled for.

The only place I think of to look is the career builder - newsday editiion. Sorry I am not much of a help.

hugs to you and FH though! When one door closes another one opens. He will find a better job out there!!
Jesses Girl Posted:

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awwww wim sorry

i will ask around for him...i hope all is bettter with his stomach

and the chef is a real a-hole.
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by Nelly

Wow so sorry to hear about that.
I dont know about possible jobs for him but if you do a search on head hunters you should be able to find some.
About the medicaid, i dont think that is true. You guys should call back so you dont get stuck paying the bill. If that were the case no citizen would have emergency medicare which makes absolutely no sense.
You and FH will definitley be in my



Thanks. I told him to call back and speak to someone else or a manager. We were just getting the run around yesterday at the hospital. We had to fight with them to get ONE of the catscans taken off the bill because they messed up the first one, so we of course refused to pay for the second one.
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by rahana316

They lied to him at this office and caused him to get fired??? He should sue their asses!! He HAS medical bills stating that he was sick. They can't fire you over **** like that. ***??

Stuff like that annoys me. That is so unfair and uncalled for.

The only place I think of to look is the career builder - newsday editiion. Sorry I am not much of a help.

hugs to you and FH though! When one door closes another one opens. He will find a better job out there!!



That what I said at first. They couldn't fire him if he returned to work that monday because his dr notes said he could return that day. But since there is not documentation for those 2 extra days there's no ground to sue.. Trust me.. thats what I was first thinking of.

We've been on career builder, monster, hotjobs and craigslist everyday. But thanks!!
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by Jesses Girl

awwww wim sorry

i will ask around for him...i hope all is bettter with his stomach

and the chef is a real a-hole.



Yup he's feeling better. We think the parasite actually just died I know its a lil gross. the whole thing grosses me out But now he's super hungry all the time because the parasite is not taking up room. Now he's back to normal where he wants to eat everything
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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i'm sorry, i have no information that would help you but i just wanted to say i'm so sorry to hear that you guys are going through all of this.

Mizzdimple Posted:

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Thats horrbile., thank god hes okay.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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wow I'm really sorry..that isn't fair that they did that..can he fight it? especially if he has a doctors note..prayers for you and your fh,and heres some hugs
cherish83 Posted:

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Thanks girls. I really appreciate all the support, prayers and
ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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That totally SU*KS! The chef is a jerk. Can he get a new drs note saying he should be home for the extra 2 days?

I will ask FH if they are hiring at his job.

Everything will work out i the end. I hope he gets his gaming license.
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

That totally SU*KS! The chef is a jerk. Can he get a new drs note saying he should be home for the extra 2 days?

I will ask FH if they are hiring at his job.

Everything will work out i the end. I hope he gets his gaming license.



Thanks. I really appreciate it!
MikeandJess Posted:

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I'm sorry Megan, I wish I had useful info but I don't know much about medicaid but here are a few
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

I'm sorry Megan, I wish I had useful info but I don't know much about medicaid but here are a few



Thanks Jess
kellybean Posted:

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I know it isnt the best offer but Fm I have one....as far as the medicaid thats garbage he def can .......Fm with that I will help as much as I can
what hosp is it??
rahana316 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

I'm sorry Megan, I wish I had useful info but I don't know much about medicaid but here are a few



I think depending on your income, you can apply for medicad. Do a google search you might be able to find something.

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