Need some help ladies!!

Hey ladies! I just got engaged (7/5/10) and I've been reading so many posts, and they are all so helpful, so I figured I would ask you all for some help!! Okay; so here's my question: FH and I are getting married at our RH, but I don't know how were getting there, in order to take pictures and get ready (or maybe we'll get ready before we go to our rh?) Idk... Also, since we are planning to see eachother before our ceremony in order to go to out CH, how much earlier should we plan on doing this? Hoping you ladies can give me some input on what we should do! What would you do? Thanks in advance!!
Xo Michele