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mekaRamsay22 Posted:

Need to Vent

What is so hard about walking to the mailbox and drop the RSVP? Noooooooooooo instead I'm getting phone calls saying 'I don't know where it is or I lost it but I'm coming. What kind of bull crap is that? And my favorite one do I have to mail it back to you.

The thing that pissed me off about this is half of these people receive stamp with the RSVP.

I just don't get it!

Anyway I have 65 confirm and the rest are M.I.A.
mendi725 Posted:

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I hate the 'do I have to mail it back?' I put a stamp on there for a reason...Lovely FMIL never sent hers back. I'm so glad that's over with!!!

jeffamanda080808 Posted:

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I think at least 90% of us have gone through it. We had one guy that we saw at another wedding come up to us and said 'Do I have to mail it in cause you know I am coming!' FH got a voice mail on Wednesday from that guy saying...'OH man I am soo sorry...I know I said I was coming and not mailing it in but I actually am going to another wedding that night...I'm the best man and I totally forgot what day it was. Sorry hope you have a nice wedding.' FH actually knows the guys he is best man for and not good friends with him but had no idea he was getting married the same day!

ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????
mrsjpc3 Posted:

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i am one of these people (sometimes)

little34 Posted:

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I understand your frustration but at least these people are calling you... better than you having to wonder or hunt them down
FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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Posted by jeffamanda080808

I think at least 90% of us have gone through it. We had one guy that we saw at another wedding come up to us and said 'Do I have to mail it in cause you know I am coming!' FH got a voice mail on Wednesday from that guy saying...'OH man I am soo sorry...I know I said I was coming and not mailing it in but I actually am going to another wedding that night...I'm the best man and I totally forgot what day it was. Sorry hope you have a nice wedding.' FH actually knows the guys he is best man for and not good friends with him but had no idea he was getting married the same day!

ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????



That sounds just like a man, lol
mekaRamsay22 Posted:

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One week later and the RSVP's are still coming in, that is why I sent them out early with a early RSVP date by the end of the month i should have them all.

Better late than never!
wundmoretime Posted:

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I am getting a lot of that too.

laurak102476 Posted:

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I am kicking myself for not picking an earlier RSVP date. I have gotten 1 this entire week back!!! It is so frustrating... I have a feeling we will be making A LOT of phone calls.

julianas Posted:

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I hear you! My deadline is today and there are loads of people who still haven't responded! I guess a month was not enough time for them? It's very annoying and rude I think. I don't think we should have to hunt people down and ask them to rsvp...hello, they should be glad to get an invite!

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