NEED TO VENT!!! SORRY SO LONG

My cousin was supposed to be a BM. I was engaged in July 09 and knew the BM dresses I wanted. They were being custom made in the color I wanted so I needed to get my girls measurements in early. From Aug 09 I was asking everyone just to go anywhere and get the measurements and send them in to the dress place. 5 months went by, I moved the final date three times for my cousin and SHE NEVER GOT THEM DONE! I was more than patient the whole way through. She never even gave an excuse, just she didnt have time (5 months should be long enough!) Then I said one last time, can you get them in by Jan (whatever the date was) .. she assured me she would and I texted her three times that week to remind her. She ended up texting me back and saying she couldnt do them until the next day. I started arguing with her and she backed out of the wedding!!! So, IM DONE WITH her! Things really escalated after this and I ended up telling her that I dont want her coming to anything, not the shower, not the wedding, Im just done (this was after the crazy b*tch emailed FMIL telling her that Im crazy)!!!

So, now I just found out that they invited her to my bridal shower!!! AHHH!!! She better not come and ruin anything, I truly dont want her there - shes crazy!

P.S. I was this girls MOH!!!

Ugh!! People stink!!! Sorry

WOW.

im sooo sorry you have to deal with this girl. shes being completely inconsiderate, selfish, and RUDE! w t f crawled up her butt? 5 months is MORE than enough time to get measurements, youre so better off without her, i hope she doesnt ruin anything for you

what a psycho... who emails your fmil, shes prob got some seriousl jealousy issues

she was just causing you more stress...hopefully she doesnt show up to your shower...if she does she doesnt say anything to you!

you are better off without her!!! the girl has some issues

Thanks! Yeah shes really nuts. She kept saying 'how dare her ask me to bring my kids out in the freezing cold to get my measurements'

Umm. Aug, Sept, Oct .. none of those months are freezing cold.. They were all just ridiculous excuses.

What am I going to do if she shows up

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What am I going to do if she shows up

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just ignore her... if she comes up to you, just be cordial so no drama happens

wow so crazy! and I cant believe she emailed ur FMIL! who does THAT????


just ignore her if she comes to the shower.

and I gotta say, ppl never remember the nice stuff u do for them, very selfish

Youre so right! When I was her MOH I HAND WROTE IN CALLIGRAPHY HER WEDDING ENVELOPES! Went with her to all her appts, vendors, RH .. everything! Made a MOH speech which I absolutely HATE public speaking but I ****** it up for her and had everybody crying and she couldnt get her stupid measurements and then backed out of the wedding. SELFISH people STINK!

Thanks for the feedback - its making me feel better knowing it wasnt me!!

People are awful and I've said it before and I'll probably say it another 10,000X before my wedding...

Weddings make me hate people.