Need your advice (need to make an asap decision) concerning my even/uneven bridal party

Original post by madseason

Feb 01, 2008 09:30 AM

OK. MY BP has 6 BMs Anna, Ashely, Nicole, Gina, Debbie, and Tara

FH has 5 Gms - John, Justin, Keith, Justin, and Tom.

Our 6th guy had to drop. I had everyone partnered up and now one of my girls (either Nicole or Tara) is partnerless...

Anna - Justin (both tall)
Ashley - John (MOH and Best Man)
Justin - Debbie (hehe 5'4 and 5'0)
Tom - Nicole (shes tall but shes wearing flats - hes tiny too)
Gina - Keith

now Tara is left alone.....

I really wanted an even BP, but the 6th GM Jason had to drop bc wife will be giving birth around that time!

Problem is FH isnt really close to anyone, and I was pusing him to ask someone...and now i feel horrible. He has 2 cousins and cant ask 1. Our brothers are both Gms.

Should I go with 6 and 5? How can I work it? He might ask someone that he might be asking just to appease me, and Im not sure how fair that is to him, just for the eveness...u know? HELP!

Teamhurldon Posted: Feb 01, 2008 11:12 AM

Re: Need your advice (need to make an asap decision) concerning my even/uneven bridal party

i say leave it, size height and pair ups really arent that important in the big scheme....lol we having gals walk with gals because we have groomsgirls, dont try to pick someone last minute just to make it even...imo

Lyssiegrl Posted: Feb 01, 2008 11:57 AM

Re: Need your advice (need to make an asap decision) concerning my even/uneven bridal party

How about having the MOH walk down alone? Or have 1 groomsmen walk down with 2 bridesmaids...

madseason Posted: Feb 01, 2008 12:02 PM

Re: Need your advice (need to make an asap decision) concerning my even/uneven bridal party

MOH is going at it alone....best man will be with FH..

so someone is doublin up

Cutechef729 Posted: Feb 01, 2008 12:08 PM

Re: Need your advice (need to make an asap decision) concerning my even/uneven bridal party

Well something to think about also is that the Best man is usually up with the groom anyway so I think the MOH walks by herself, or two girls can walk with one guy. It's not a huge deal if you have uneven amounts. I wouldn't want to just put someone in just to be even.