Needing Specifics

Ok well I've done a ton of searches on E parties & Pictures, but I need more specific info. My sister is having her eparty at a hall with a dj & my FH's brother is having his at their parents house in the backyard & they are all going to be within months of mine so I want to do something different. I was thinking a bar- so that everyone can party all night long, a dj-- that type of scene. But I don't want a restaurant-- just a bar- we're talking about maybe 100 people- Any ideas?I'd like to stay in suffolk- thanks in advance!

Ok & the second issue is that I want to have Epictures taken but I am not ready to choose a photographer for my wedding, has anyone done the pics w/o booking the wedding & for anyone who HAS had their epics taken, would you kindly post some?!??!?!?! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!