Negative Posters - RANT

Doesn't it just kill you when there are people on here that are only looking to post negative and judgemental comments?!? I love this site and have become friendly with many of the girls on here because we all have each others backs! I've been seeing some highly assumptive posts, ONE person in particular, that is not fitting in with the niceness of the others on the boards!!! I don't look for anyone to always agree with me, but don't be a complete and utter a$$hole either. Sorry, that's it - just needed to voice this cuz I was so aggravated!

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Posted by Celeste617

Doesn't it just kill you when there are people on here that are only looking to post negative and judgemental comments?!? I love this site and have become friendly with many of the girls on here because we all have each others backs! I've been seeing some highly assumptive posts, ONE person in particular, that is not fitting in with the niceness of the others on the boards!!! I don't look for anyone to always agree with me, but don't be a complete and utter a$$hole either. Sorry, that's it - just needed to voice this cuz I was so aggravated!

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hmm not exactly sure what you are referencing here...are you speaking about hte 09 boards specifically?

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by Celeste617

Doesn't it just kill you when there are people on here that are only looking to post negative and judgemental comments?!? I love this site and have become friendly with many of the girls on here because we all have each others backs! I've been seeing some highly assumptive posts, ONE person in particular, that is not fitting in with the niceness of the others on the boards!!! I don't look for anyone to always agree with me, but don't be a complete and utter a$$hole either. Sorry, that's it - just needed to voice this cuz I was so aggravated!

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hmm not exactly sure what you are referencing here...are you speaking about hte 09 boards specifically?

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Me too

ditto

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Posted by littlepixie12

wow, sorry you experienced this! I havent found this to be so on the 09 board myself. I hope everoyne can play nice. You are all such lovely girls.

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agreed...truthfully, i think this has been the most 'pleasant' the site has been since last summer!

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Posted by Celeste617

Doesn't it just kill you when there are people on here that are only looking to post negative and judgemental comments?!? I love this site and have become friendly with many of the girls on here because we all have each others backs! I've been seeing some highly assumptive posts, ONE person in particular, that is not fitting in with the niceness of the others on the boards!!! I don't look for anyone to always agree with me, but don't be a complete and utter a$$hole either. Sorry, that's it - just needed to voice this cuz I was so aggravated!

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OMG! Im not sure who you are relating this too, but overall i think our 09 girls are fabulous! I think everyone has a bad day & may even have some negatives, but thats how we are. Also i think with the amount of girls on this site not everyone is bound to get along but i think in the grand scheme of things, i think the 09 girls are really great together. I LOVE THE GIRLS!

PS. I hope you dont experience anymore of this.

I love this site! I am completely and truly obsessed with it (and FH makes fun of me all the time for it...) I've seen some negative and rude posts in both the '09 boards (where I typically stay) and BHB. But it's not coming from any of the girls I normally see. It just upset me because I love to come on here and just chat it up and to see these things made me sad. I understand not everyone agrees with everything - that's 100% fine, but there are nicer ways to express an opinion.
I love my fellow '09ers and want to thank you for hearing me out. I'm home alone today and didn't have anyone to tell!!

gotcha celeste...don't let silly people make you upset...i saw what you were talking about (I think..) you didnt do or ask anything wrong..just brush it off..people need to learn how to phrase things when typing a response to a perfectly legit question! sheesh!

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Posted by VickiR510

OK OK i see to whatyou are referring & im glad its not an 09er! Remember people can make any opinion of you they want its what you & FH know that matters. Im sorry you were called shallow, that was a ridiculous statement. No-one really knows anyones situation, i completely understand you.

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HAHA thanks Maybe I'm just overreacting cuz I'm PMSing but alas... Thanks girl!

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Posted by Celeste617

I love this site! I am completely and truly obsessed with it (and FH makes fun of me all the time for it...) I've seen some negative and rude posts in both the '09 boards (where I typically stay) and BHB. But it's not coming from any of the girls I normally see. It just upset me because I love to come on here and just chat it up and to see these things made me sad. I understand not everyone agrees with everything - that's 100% fine, but there are nicer ways to express an opinion.
I love my fellow '09ers and want to thank you for hearing me out. I'm home alone today and didn't have anyone to tell!!

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you know it s u c k s because you are reading a post, and things can come off wierd in a post or an email and maybe they didnt mean any harm by it but the tone of post sounded mean. Did that make sense? lol

I always try to remember that we never know how someone actually means something. We assign whatever tone we want to the post- and sometimes its not accurate.

People should always be nice though...

I hope you don't experience that again. Hugs!


ETA: I saw what you were talking about. I found that whole post to be completely odd. There was a weird vibe with it. JMO

Thanks again ladies I can always count on yourgirls to make me feel better!
I just didn't happen to like being called shallow by someone who is new here and just didn't agree with something I said...disagree fine - but no name calling!

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Posted by MrsZtoBe


ETA: I saw what you were talking about. I found that whole post to be completely odd. There was a weird vibe with it. JMO

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Truly! I agree

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Posted by Celeste617

Thanks again ladies I can always count on yourgirls to make me feel better!
I just didn't happen to like being called shallow by someone who is new here and just didn't agree with something I said...disagree fine - but no name calling!

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woah, i didnt see that! ***...

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by Celeste617

Thanks again ladies I can always count on yourgirls to make me feel better!
I just didn't happen to like being called shallow by someone who is new here and just didn't agree with something I said...disagree fine - but no name calling!

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woah, i didnt see that! ***...

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got your back!

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

got your back!

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I saw that Lauren thanks girl!