Nerves.

Hi, I'll start out by introducing myself. My name is Laur, I'm 19 years old, and am working at to get a degree in journalism. My fiance, Brett. and I have know eachother for 5 years, and we've been best friends for 3 of those years. Then for about 2 years we were dating. Well in March, March fourth to be exact he asked me to marry him. I was flattered. So are going to be married September 10th. Wow, its coming up soon, and I'm getting nervous, not cold feet nervous, but extremley shooken up kind of nervous. I'm not sure how to handle things,everything seems so overwhelming, and my mother isn't helping any. Does anyone have any tips to come me down??

just take one thing at a time - you have over a year to plan everything - just relax - if you don't mind me asking - you are so young, whats the rush?? Have you thought about finishing school first?

Well, actually I might of filled out the information wrong or something, but the wedding is next week.. ... Yeah, I realize, I am pretty young, and I talked to my mom about this , and it almost seems like she's pushing me. I really do love Brett, and there's no doubt about that. I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But it seems so odd that my mom is pushing me. It's like she wants me to be tied down or something. I mean it's not really hurting her. I don't live with her or anything. I guess I'll have to finish school along with this marriage, and shh shh shh haha..but we could be expecting. mixed emotions.

Good luck with everything, and if you are expecting then you have to stay relaxed for the baby. Life totally changes once you become a parent. I know mine did when my son was born and that was 5 years ago, and I learn something new from him all the time.

I agree.. school is very important.
When you are done with that, things really fall into place.
Take things one at a time and it won't seem so overwhelming. Good Luck--kelly

My advice is to finish school. You need to be your own woman before you can ever be anyone's wife.

Good luck!!!

- Next week!!!! Best of luck to you with everything - everything will fall into place

what ever happens with that is meant to be

Another young bride! Laur, I'm 20 and though I'm not getting married until next year, I know how it feels. Have you gotten the 'oh my god, you're so young!' like a zillion times? I wish you the best of luck! Don't be nervous!

I definitely can relate. I was a nightmare. I honestly asked my husband why he wanted to marry me because I was being such a B*tch! He said he knew that it was only the wedding & that I would be different after...which was true. I was honestly wedding phobic. I was wanting it to be over ASAP! It was pretty quick... I was still a little tense for a couple days afterwards...now everything is wonderful!