new fsil vent!!!

I miss you girls,!!! I'm coming to you live from south carolina via blackberry!! God I love this phone.except I can't type properly on it so please forgive typos and errors. My fbil's wedding was nice... Def NOT a ny wedding and my wedding will put that to shame.

But time for the real reason I'm typing this vent... I HATE FSIL!!! Omg she's a beyotch!!! my fh and I are staying at FIL'S house and they have a pool so today fh and I did a quick change from our bathing suits to reg. clothes so we could eat dinner. We left them on the towel in our room shut the door and went abt our merry way to quick eat and then we'd change back after dinner and cake. (Its fh's bday today). So after dinner while I'm helping fmil clean up fsil calls my fh over. And she says to him there's wet stuff in our room get it out now! And fh said he'd be up in a minute. So I finish helping fmil and I go upstairs and our stuff is on the stairs.... So I flip out grab fh. That ***** went into our room took our stuff and threw it on a hardwood floor.... ***!!! Who the **** does this stupid ***** think she is. So I flip out to fmil who seemed to ignore the fact that this ***** who doesn't even live here went into our room where we are staying went thru our stuff and had the nerve to move it. She went on abt the suits on the carpet,they were ona dry towel. And then when we said the door was closed that's when her tune changed. I'm fuming and I feel violated. Am I wrong? I didn't mention anything to her my self bc fmil told me to keep my cool and she'd talk to her abt it. That and I'd rip her a new one. Ok vent over... But I wanna know am I wrong?!

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Posted by HEATHERLYNNA

Was that girl on serious drugs to walk into the room you are staying in!??! Whether you had wet stuff on the floor or not, she wouldn't have seen it if she wasn't snooping around!!! She loses.

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I agree! she would have never seen it if she wasn't snooping around! that's really rude!

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Posted by HEATHERLYNNA


Was that girl on serious drugs to walk into the room you are staying in!??! Whether you had wet stuff on the floor or not, she wouldn't have seen it if she wasn't snooping around!!! She loses.

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That's what I'm saying!! I've been flipping out bc I feel violated. I had all my moms jewelry she lent me for the wedding on the dressers and that's what irked me even more. After I talked to fmil I went to fbil and was like that was rude and uncalled for, she's not staying in there nor did she have the right to touch my stuff especially since I have expensive things in there. And he was like if youre implying she'd steal anything than you're barking up the wrong tree. I told him flat out that she had no reason to violate my privacy how do you know what she was trying to do what reason did she give you for walking into our room.I'm sure as hell she's not the damp clothes police!!!! When we visited their appartment earlier in the day I didn't mention how uncomfortable I felt that there were edible undies hanging around in the open with my 5 year old step daughter running around. Yes, I understand the clothes were damp but it was suuposed to be a quick change no harm done. Either way, She would not have known unless she came in the room bc they weren't even close to the door. Whether the door was open like she claims or not, she went into my **** violated my privacy and if it wasn't the fact that I'm a guest in fmil's home I swear I'd have given her the beating of her life.

I'm still sooo aggitated by this. I mean the nerve of the action alone!! Argghhhh!!!

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Posted by DMLHeartsCRM

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Posted by HEATHERLYNNA


Was that girl on serious drugs to walk into the room you are staying in!??! Whether you had wet stuff on the floor or not, she wouldn't have seen it if she wasn't snooping around!!! She loses.

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That's what I'm saying!! I've been flipping out bc I feel violated. I had all my moms jewelry she lent me for the wedding on the dressers and that's what irked me even more. After I talked to fmil I went to fbil and was like that was rude and uncalled for, she's not staying in there nor did she have the right to touch my stuff especially since I have expensive things in there. And he was like if youre implying she'd steal anything than you're barking up the wrong tree. I told him flat out that she had no reason to violate my privacy how do you know what she was trying to do what reason did she give you for walking into our room.I'm sure as hell she's not the damp clothes police!!!! When we visited their appartment earlier in the day I didn't mention how uncomfortable I felt that there were edible undies hanging around in the open with my 5 year old step daughter running around. Yes, I understand the clothes were damp but it was suuposed to be a quick change no harm done. Either way, She would not have known unless she came in the room bc they weren't even close to the door. Whether the door was open like she claims or not, she went into my **** violated my privacy and if it wasn't the fact that I'm a guest in fmil's home I swear I'd have given her the beating of her life.

I'm still sooo aggitated by this. I mean the nerve of the action alone!! Argghhhh!!!

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She sounds like a real winner! Do you guys usually get along??

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Posted by HEATHERLYNNA

Was that girl on serious drugs to walk into the room you are staying in!??! Whether you had wet stuff on the floor or not, she wouldn't have seen it if she wasn't snooping around!!! She loses.

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absolutely!!!!!

damp clothes police!!!!!!

hilarious!!!!

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Posted by DMLHeartsCRM

FH and I actually only just met her for the first time on saturday at her wedding where I gave her a nice check... Which I'm considering putting a stop on!

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Oh wow! It was her wedding!!??! What a great way to say thank you!!! Some people I will never understand.

Ughhh.

My FSIL used to do this to me too. She was wearing my perfume (the expensive once I only wear to important things its that expensive) I found her in my underwear draw once! I bugged out like Jerry Springer status LOL But she never did it again. I am not suggesting to be a ***** to her or flip out like I did but you need to set boundaries. It's the hardest thing to do, I still find her laying in our bed which skeeves the everliving **** out of me but pick your battles.

Remember Boundaries and knowing when to step in. You never have to be mean just direct and to the point.

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Posted by HEATHERLYNNA

Was that girl on serious drugs to walk into the room you are staying in!??! Whether you had wet stuff on the floor or not, she wouldn't have seen it if she wasn't snooping around!!! She loses.

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Absolutely!

NOOOO you are not wrong.. The door was CLOSED so W-T-F was she doing in YOUR ROOM that you guys are staying in!??!?!?! I would FLIP!!!!!!!!!!

sounds like she was trying to stress the fact that SHE is the new DIL...not you. Too bad that shitt's gonna backfire on her. eventually she's gonna be known as the troublemaker.

i'd have FH call FBIL and tell him to reign that biatch in or you're stop payment on that check.

sounds like FMIL was sorta on your side once she realized she walked into the room.

w t h, that was a bltch move of her how old is she