NEW May brides check in lol

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Posted by minibride08

Wedding Rings
3rd fitting end of month
finish song lists & photo lists for final apts (both scheduled)
Follow up on outstanding RSVP's & finish seating chart
Make sure all guys go for tuxes
Make sure all girls have alterations & accessories (bages, shoes, etc)
Have white outfit for getting ready monogramed
Order memory charm
Get FH baptism cert.
Finish IPOD playlist for morning of to get ready
Send RD Invites & buy dress for RD & bottles of wine for favor
Shower TY's
Purchase cocktail napkins/ matches
Send info to newspapers for annoucements
Marriage License (decide when we are going to go for it)


Have all the supplies, just need to assemble:
Programs (just went over info with Deacon)
Menus (just picked with RH)
Favors
Seating tags
Table #'s
Bathroom & Slipper Baskets
Unity Candle
Pew Bows
OOT boxes (buy stuff for inside & assemble)
Jordan Almonds
Guest Book (order from Shutterfly)

Misc Beauty Stuff
Keep going tanning 1x per week
Facial next week
Hair apt for color May 6
Keep doing whitestrips
Gym... ovbiously - lol

Seems like a lot but I actually feel good about everything!!

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o man u reminded me to make a color appt and go to my hair stylist to get a color match for my extensions and of course marriage license...cant have a wedding w/out that!!

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Posted by JoeJo

Forgot about the HM shopping!!

How could i forget that!

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yeah i need to finish that too. I already bought a few stuff but im not too worried bc leaving for the HM 6 days after wedding so FH and i just might have to pack in alot of shopping the few days after lol

ugh. i'm trying to do this without looking at anyone else's list

first fitting tomorrow
need veil
DOJ
finalize flowers - next saturday
meeting at RH - 4/26 to pick menu and linens etc.
favors hopefully will look tomorrow
placecards
pick first dance and M/S, F/D songs
pick readings, meet with priest one more time
pick ceremony music (having a REALLY hard time with this)
call and confirm with photographer, DJ, video guy
menus (after RH meeting)
programs (if I feel like it and there's time)
hair trial 5/10
OMG book the rest of my HM!!
go tanning
5/10 - reorganize closets while fh is in vegas so he can move in lol
5/17 - BORGATA WITH MY SISTERS
2nd fitting??
5/22 - PR bach party
pack for honeymoon

and most important try to pass my two classes so my entire wedding isn't ruined by the fact that i failed out of NYU

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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Posted by roan126

Just placecards, favors and table seatings at this point. Trying to get everything done so I dont have to stress the week before.

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WOW you finished everything else, good for you...thats what im trying to do now, i dont want to do anything the week of

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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can't you do the RH meeting on a saturday? is it because they have weddings going on?

i am getting anxious but more overwhelmed like with school and not doing that well, now work is piling up too and everything will be due the week before i leave but that's good b/c i refuse to be reachable on the HM

i'm trying to put it all out of my head until 5/8 when school is over. then I can do any last minute details

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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anxiety all the time. especially now when we though FMIL was giving us a good amount of $ to book our honeymoon and it might not even happen. so ill have alot of anxiety til i know for sure whats going on and when everything is paid off. at least in two weeks the limo and photo will be paid

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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I'm having a bit of anxiety just to make sure I get everything done & am not forgetting everything. It's helped that I bought all the supplies I need & just need to do it... We set up all of our final apts and had some of them so that helped A LOT. And after my shower, my BM's that live close are going to come over to help finish the DIY's probly next week or the week after. NORMAL anxiety.. Yes

Good luck meeting with your RH. We had our final meeting on Tues and that REALLY helped! We picked menu & visualized everything. And, our contact just made us feel so comfortable.... After this weekend you will feel like things are moving!!!

I keep forgetting about the marriage license!

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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can't you do the RH meeting on a saturday? is it because they have weddings going on?

i am getting anxious but more overwhelmed like with school and not doing that well, now work is piling up too and everything will be due the week before i leave but that's good b/c i refuse to be reachable on the HM

i'm trying to put it all out of my head until 5/8 when school is over. then I can do any last minute details

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they said no only monday -friday. I told her if its within the next few days i can make it but not sure if FH can. I tried to explain that i broke my foot and will be out 2 weeks from work and cant ask for a day off when i go back and that with the wedding coming up and us taking off for the HM and fh just took off for his bachelor party we cant really leave work THAT early to be in LI by 2pm. I said MAYBE 5-6 but they are pushing for anywhere between 2-4...at this point im going to call back and say its IMPOSSIBLE!!! maybe they just dont want to stay late but i cant do anything else, and ill tell them that since they just mailed me all the choices we have to make ill do it over the phone, maybe then they'll understand.

yeah its very overwhelming right now

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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anxiety all the time. especially now when we though FMIL was giving us a good amount of $ to book our honeymoon and it might not even happen. so ill have alot of anxiety til i know for sure whats going on and when everything is paid off. at least in two weeks the limo and photo will be paid

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oh god paying everything probably is bringing the most anxiety...Its constantly more money for this and that and its never ending right now

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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can't you do the RH meeting on a saturday? is it because they have weddings going on?

i am getting anxious but more overwhelmed like with school and not doing that well, now work is piling up too and everything will be due the week before i leave but that's good b/c i refuse to be reachable on the HM

i'm trying to put it all out of my head until 5/8 when school is over. then I can do any last minute details

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they said no only monday -friday. I told her if its within the next few days i can make it but not sure if FH can. I tried to explain that i broke my foot and will be out 2 weeks from work and cant ask for a day off when i go back and that with the wedding coming up and us taking off for the HM and fh just took off for his bachelor party we cant really leave work THAT early to be in LI by 2pm. I said MAYBE 5-6 but they are pushing for anywhere between 2-4...at this point im going to call back and say its IMPOSSIBLE!!! maybe they just dont want to stay late but i cant do anything else, and ill tell them that since they just mailed me all the choices we have to make ill do it over the phone, maybe then they'll understand.

yeah its very overwhelming right now

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wow thats crazy. i really hate how vendors set up their appointments like the brides and grooms dont have jobs. FH wasnt able to come with me to a few appts because he works nights and they only meet on weekdays. i just booked all my final appts for the same day so fh wouldnt have to take off more than once. so we're meeting with limo, photo and RH all the same night. Luckily DJ could meet with us on a monday which is FH's day off.

Programs- have to pick out stuff before we do

Menu's - format is ready, picking menu next week

placecards - hopefully picking them up next week

2nd fitting-have an appt end of april

have shoes dyed.

pick up veil in may

Favors and favors packaging i cant decide on favors

have to get plus FG and RB gifts and gm gifts and bm's jewelry

pick a first song

have flower appt tomorrow to go over sample

meet with everyone!

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Posted by minibride08

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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I'm having a bit of anxiety just to make sure I get everything done & am not forgetting everything. It's helped that I bought all the supplies I need & just need to do it... We set up all of our final apts and had some of them so that helped A LOT. And after my shower, my BM's that live close are going to come over to help finish the DIY's probly next week or the week after. NORMAL anxiety.. Yes

Good luck meeting with your RH. We had our final meeting on Tues and that REALLY helped! We picked menu & visualized everything. And, our contact just made us feel so comfortable.... After this weekend you will feel like things are moving!!!

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yeah if everything was done already and paid for it would be SOOOOOOO great hahaha.

Thank you, although i have no idea how were going to meet with them. What time did you do yours?

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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anxiety all the time. especially now when we though FMIL was giving us a good amount of $ to book our honeymoon and it might not even happen. so ill have alot of anxiety til i know for sure whats going on and when everything is paid off. at least in two weeks the limo and photo will be paid

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oh god paying everything probably is bringing the most anxiety...Its constantly more money for this and that and its never ending right now

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you dont know how excited i get when i get 'no' rsvps lol its not normal.

we've been adding alot of extra little details like the grooms cake which is $$ so we need to stop.

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by snwb08

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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can't you do the RH meeting on a saturday? is it because they have weddings going on?

i am getting anxious but more overwhelmed like with school and not doing that well, now work is piling up too and everything will be due the week before i leave but that's good b/c i refuse to be reachable on the HM

i'm trying to put it all out of my head until 5/8 when school is over. then I can do any last minute details

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they said no only monday -friday. I told her if its within the next few days i can make it but not sure if FH can. I tried to explain that i broke my foot and will be out 2 weeks from work and cant ask for a day off when i go back and that with the wedding coming up and us taking off for the HM and fh just took off for his bachelor party we cant really leave work THAT early to be in LI by 2pm. I said MAYBE 5-6 but they are pushing for anywhere between 2-4...at this point im going to call back and say its IMPOSSIBLE!!! maybe they just dont want to stay late but i cant do anything else, and ill tell them that since they just mailed me all the choices we have to make ill do it over the phone, maybe then they'll understand.

yeah its very overwhelming right now

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wow thats crazy. i really hate how vendors set up their appointments like the brides and grooms dont have jobs. FH wasnt able to come with me to a few appts because he works nights and they only meet on weekdays. i just booked all my final appts for the same day so fh wouldnt have to take off more than once. so we're meeting with limo, photo and RH all the same night. Luckily DJ could meet with us on a monday which is FH's day off.

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i know i dont understand. I mean do we really have to take a day off for this? come on its a bit much. And not like we can leave THAT early. To be in LI by 2pm, i would have to leave work a little after noon lol. Theres a chance FH MIGHT be able to make it by 4pm on monday to LI since i am still off of work until tuesday. He gets out early most of the time and actually just got home 5 minutes ago just now. But monday of course he has to go to 3 locations so out of all days

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by Espo22

is anyone else getting anxiety lol. I normally dont have anxiety but lately i have knots in my stomach all the time when thinking whats left to do, i was so calm until this past weekend hahahaha.

Tonight when fh is here going to take care of real small things such as unity candle and photo guestbook, RD invites. I am going to ask him about my idea for place cards and if he likes it then maybe ill have him drive me to the city and buy supplies and start working on it. Im glad programs are getting done.

Ill have to say for RH meeting, i am not even 100% sure we can make it the lady told us that she knows alot of ppl want late appts such as 7-8 but they are booked and keeps asking me to do it at 2-3 or 3-4 and i try explaining that we really can't so i dont even know how this is going to work out

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anxiety all the time. especially now when we though FMIL was giving us a good amount of $ to book our honeymoon and it might not even happen. so ill have alot of anxiety til i know for sure whats going on and when everything is paid off. at least in two weeks the limo and photo will be paid

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oh god paying everything probably is bringing the most anxiety...Its constantly more money for this and that and its never ending right now

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you dont know how excited i get when i get 'no' rsvps lol its not normal.

we've been adding alot of extra little details like the grooms cake which is $$ so we need to stop.

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im afraid with rsvps lol. I dont mind if we'll be a little under minimum but i really DONT want to go over my minimum at all. So i get nervous when they come in hahahaha. Fh just told me we got 12 rsvps today so going to find out in a little bit lol