new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

hey i have been on the site for a few months and havent been that involved truth is i dont really understand it... anyway... FH left today to take his grandpa off life support... we need prayers its been a long rough journey and i couldnt be there because of work in NY .....weve been having a rough patch and im having a hard time being away from him with this.... i wanna be there but cant be yet...please any advice on anything to say etc... would be amazing....im planing all alone and am running out of time... this is just a bump on our road of the year.... xo

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

hello and welcome..i hope we can help u understand this site better..

as for u situation,first off im sorry u r going through this..my advice to u when u see fh is to just be there for him,hold his hand and be that shoulder he needs to cry on right now..let him know how much his grandpa loved hima nd how he knew that fh loved him...remind him he is in a better place and not in any more pain..nothing but time can heal a wound and im sure he need su now more than ever

i hope this helps u..good luck

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thank u so much ... u know when u just need to vent and cant talk to anyone???? this is my new place.... he was able to say good bye today while he was still there so we will c what tomorrow brings... all i can do is wait ... we know its better off but its been so long who knows when it wil end......

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

awwww u guys are so sweet im trying to get more involved i just dont really understand it all always!!! but i know u guys have a cute little community.... help me!!!!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

i know its confusing at first but u will get the hang of it...there is always a topic u can relate to and just chime in whenver u can..we have a greta group of girls here who love to help and r very good at it...hope to see u around..gina

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Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

i just feel like i reply and im not sure it actually posts .... or maybe im just chiming in where its not my business..... i c some of u are always responding thats awesome!!!!!! i seriously need help lol i have no help from friends or fam cuz everyone either works or is out of state.... this sites great to read but getting replies is harder not to sound sad haha thanx girls!!!!

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thanx gina for ur inspiring words!!!! greatly appreciated !!! made my day

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just keep posting if u need help..or fm me anytime and i will do my best to help u out

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thanks!!!!!!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

Hi...

Everyone handles this type of stuff differently so sadly I do not know what to say... excpet that I am sorry Just be there for him and let him talk and hug him a lot

I am so sorry that you have to go thru this...

and... come around more often ... you will get the hang of it and you will become obsessed like us Welcome!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

u guys are awesome im glad this site exists....thank u its ben so hard that every time we go to c his fam they say its the last time u will c grandpa.... now it really is so i think it was almost a shock to him.... its rough on him im more of a hes in a better place and things are meant to happen for a reason kinda girl.....

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Sorry to hear this. Yeah just keep posting, everyone on here is nice and very helpful even with things that are not wedding related.

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

welcome ...im so sorry to hear about fh's grandma ..that must have been so hard for him..my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

praying for you please come on here to vent, chat and look at pretty pictures for distractions ..its therapy believe me

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Sweetheart please fm me your name/fh name/his grandfather so I can put it on our prayer wallhere at work. This community has helped me though the worst times over the last few years so use us!

Re: new to LIW but FH and I need prayers!!!

I am so sorry for you loss.. I will keep you, FH, and his family in my prayers..

I had to go through a very difficult loss myself a few weeks ago and the only advice I can give you is just be there for him.. There is nothing anyone can say to make it better but just knowing that you are there for him when he needs a shoulder to cry on will make all the difference!