Not the ones with legit reasons like emergencies, death in the family, but the ones who just flaked out on you?
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Happybride2005
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nope
Corduroy94
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Nope!
SomethingBlu
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Rebecca are you crazy? NOPE! Those people suk and I plan on doing my darndest at ignoring them.
ETA: Just the fact that you thought about this shows that you are WAY nicer than moi!
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If they didn't show and sent a gift-yes. there's no reason to send a thank you for someone who didn't show or sent a gift.
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Posted by SomethingBlu
Rebecca are you crazy? NOPE! Those people suk and I plan on doing my darndest at ignoring them.
ETA: Just the fact that you thought about this show this that you are WAY nicer than moi!
I had a flaky no-show from my bridal shower ask me why I didn't send a thank you card (there was no gift given). I was like, why would I send a ty? For your INTENTION to come?
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If they sent a gift - yes. If they didn't show at the wedding and said they were coming...nope!
AnniesSS
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As the other girls have said... if they sent a gift yes, but I would also add that I was sorry that I wasn't able to thank you personally.
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If they sent a gift - yes. If they didn't show at the wedding and said they were coming...nope!
Same here, I think I only have one couple that falls into that category!
Ang&Rich
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If they gave a gift then yes but I would mention that their absence was noticed. If no gift - then no thank you.
Happybride2005
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im in an opposite situation...a guy came but no gift. i had to ask if a card was given. i wanted to make sure it didn't get lost. it puts u in a weird situation
SFP0214
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Did they give a gift. If so I would say you have to.
Soon2BMrsJoeF
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Only if they gave a gift, otherwise - absolutely not!!!
Jan05Bride
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If they sent a gift yes. If they didn't then no I didn't. What would I thank them for? Making me pay for their plate, them not showing up and not getting a gift ...
mushsgrl
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I am only sending them to those that sent gifts
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ABSOULTELY NOT! My cousin and his wife RSVPed yes and never showed up and never called. I rearranged my entire seating chart to accomadate his wife since she doesnt speak to my aunt (my cousins mother). I am sure I still wouldnt have heard from them if I didnt see them at my other cousins funeral 6 weeks later.
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Not to sound like a B@%$h but if they sent a gift, yes... if not no
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Posted by Ang&Rich
If they gave a gift then yes but I would mention that their absence was noticed. If no gift - then no thank you.
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