No one is saying no

magbride Posted: Sep 19, 2007 04:51 PM

No one is saying no

I know we should be flattered, but we're getting pretty nervous. Invites have been out since 9/1...rsvp date is 10/1 and so far I have 122 yes and 5 no.
When I look at who hasn't rsvp'd yet, I see a lot of people who are most definitely coming...not many that are questionable. We're going to be broke!

Summer07Bride Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:04 PM

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We got a lot of yeses in the beginning and the nos slowly came in after if the rsvp date or not at all, so there is still hope.

MrsBarr91407 Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:05 PM

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We got a lot of yes RSVP's, then the majority of them didn't show.

magbride Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:06 PM

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Posted by Summer07Bride

We got a lot of yeses in the beginning and the nos slowly came in after if the rsvp date or not at all, so there is still hope.

Thanks. Were they surprises? Like, people you expected to come?

thelastresort Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:12 PM

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Posted by magbride

I know we should be flattered, but we're getting pretty nervous. Invites have been out since 9/1...rsvp date is 10/1 and so far I have 122 yes and 5 no.
When I look at who hasn't rsvp'd yet, I see a lot of people who are most definitely coming...not many that are questionable. We're going to be broke!

I'm totally in the same boat. I hear your pain!

LB and DC Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:19 PM

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don't worry! i was freaking out too - people who are coming will be the ones who rsvp first, you will get the no's later - i promise!!

Brian and Marie Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:39 PM

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Posted by Summer07Bride

We got a lot of yeses in the beginning and the nos slowly came in after if the rsvp date or not at all, so there is still hope.

So True!!

diva7531 Posted: Sep 19, 2007 05:41 PM

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I felt the same way, we got an 8% no rate. But we did get some no's. Then we had a few people drop out at the last minute. Sickness' and whatnot.

Snickers76 Posted: Sep 19, 2007 06:03 PM

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We got a lot of nos at the end, and there were some people that we expected to come that did not, so there still is some time.

Snickers76 Posted: Sep 19, 2007 06:04 PM

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Posted by MrsBarr91407

We got a lot of yes RSVP's, then the majority of them didn't show.

The majority responded yes and were no shows?? That's awful.

Colleen214 Posted: Sep 19, 2007 06:05 PM

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I have the same problem, i have 110 yes and only 10 no right now. I have a feeling (as everyone else has said) that we'll get the no's last. Which of course *****, because i'm panicking that everyone will come and we'll have 50 more people that we can afford.

Let's hope it all works out

ligirlz Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:11 PM

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I know how you feel it is very annoying but the worse is when they send you a card and check but no RSVP. Then you know they arent coming. I was not happy.

magbride Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:15 PM

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I have a week left...my rsvp date is 10/1. We still have 38 RSVPs missing...which i hear isn't so bad. There are lot of close family members on that list that are definitely coming, but hopefully we'll end up with more than just 6 nos.

tink79 Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:17 PM

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I'm in the same boat too! I'm hoping the nos start coming in soon. we invited 11 people over our top top limit for the room!!!

nycerika318 Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:20 PM

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I got most of my 'no's' really late. We invited about 180 and have about 152 coming. The no's will come - I promise!

diva7531 Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:25 PM

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Out of 238 invited we gor 32 no's, at least 10 of those were absolutely coming, until they weren't Just wait and see, you will be fine.

Trishthedish Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:26 PM

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Posted by Summer07Bride

We got a lot of yeses in the beginning and the nos slowly came in after if the rsvp date or not at all, so there is still hope.

Same here.

Flutterbye922 Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:28 PM

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Ya it's true - the no's start coming towards the end b.c those people are probably not sure yet.

Either that you everyone wants to go , which is flattering but......

Kurtsk8 Posted: Sep 24, 2007 02:32 PM

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that happened to us too.
Our parents told us to invite all these people and said 'oh they won't really come but you need to send them an invite...' well, they are all coming. Just about everyone we invited said yes...it's a lot more people than we thought, but we'll make the best of it and just be poor for a while! haha