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I think that I put a curse on my wedding! I said to my FH that I hope everyone doesnt come so that it will be cheaper! I was joking of course. But My invitations went out 2 weeks ago and I have only received ONE response in the mail!!!!!!!!!!!! My FH told me that his side of the guet list wont know to send the response card back. I thought he was joking but then my FMIL tells me that his cousins want her to book their flight here because they are coming. That was news to me because they didnt return the response card!!!!!! Do people think that it's not necessary to RSVP??!!

I am about to tell anyone that will listen that if I dont have a response card then they will not be allowed in!
I'm having a major BRIDEZILLA/PMS/ANXIETY MOMENT!

omg that's crazy. the last thing you need to worry about is if people are definitely coming or not. i mean, who wants to play guessing games?

get fh to talk to fmil asap about how she needs to, when speaking to her family/friends, let them know that they need to MAIL the rsvp card back-- i mean, it's self addressed and stamped, how hard is it?!!! so get fh on that and you should be good-- some people, geez!

hope it works out

That stinks!

Maybe you could have your FMIL call her relatives and spread the word that they need to return the cards if they're coming? So weird that people wouldn't know to do it...What do they think it's for?

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Posted by Boston&NY2006

That stinks!

Maybe you could have your FMIL call her relatives and spread the word that they need to return the cards if they're coming? So weird that people wouldn't know to do it...What do they think it's for?

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lol yeah really

some out of state people may not realize how big of a deal it really is-- and that you need to tell your hall a certain amount! good luck