'no' rsvps

kimnsteve Posted: Jun 23, 2008 01:47 PM

'no' rsvps

when people respond no arent you girls curious as to why?

maybe im nosey,and i know i need some people to respond no, but i wonder why they say no

do you girls wonder?

FutureMrsPD Posted: Jun 23, 2008 01:48 PM

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ive wondered that myself!

KK Holiday Posted: Jun 23, 2008 01:49 PM

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lol i want people to explain! maybe i should have included a 'reason' section of the reply card!

kimnsteve Posted: Jun 23, 2008 01:50 PM

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Posted by KK Holiday

lol i want people to explain! maybe i should have included a 'reason' section of the reply card!

that's what im saying!!

JodyLC Posted: Jun 23, 2008 01:57 PM

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Posted by kimnsteve

Posted by KK Holiday

lol i want people to explain! maybe i should have included a 'reason' section of the reply card!

that's what im saying!!

Good Idea! I want to know too...

PP424 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 01:58 PM

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I would be curious why too. I haven't gotten any response yet, since mine went out on Friday. Hopefully today

MikeandJess Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:00 PM

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there should be a form type thing like this : if yes check off and mail if no please refer to question 3 along with your excuse. Gift required.

kimnsteve Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:01 PM

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im sure you will get a lot today...we got our most on the first day

we did gte mostly yes' so far and most of them had something nice written in them

I only sent them out last week as well

PP424 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:03 PM

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Posted by kimnsteve

im sure you will get a lot today...we got our most on the first day

we did gte mostly yes' so far and most of them had something nice written in them

I only sent them out last week as well

I got so many calls on Saturday, once everyone got their invites, I told them to all send out their responses right away, so I am hoping to get some today or at least tomorrow. Gonna be stalking the mail box tonight.

Julybride08 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:11 PM

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Some people have told us why others just say they cna't attend.

kristi313 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:13 PM

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i actually got a few no's that had reasons on them which i thought was very nice

roan126 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:19 PM

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Not really...we knew why most of them werent coming. Some put down reasons, others we just assumed had something else going on.

AllyDrew1108 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:23 PM

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here's what i say, 'you s u c k for not coming to my wedding - i went to yours.' ha ha. just kidding.

i know this sounds rude, but will they send you a gift?

kimnsteve Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:30 PM

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its not that i care about the gift ...just curiosity ya know ...so far its people we really dont talk to, but im sure there will be some shockers

GinaZ Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:49 PM

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most of mine were people who told me ahead of time they couldnt make it and in most cases I knew why. Most of ours were because of traveling. And one was because a friend forgot to ask for the night off. So I didn't really wonder too much. LOL.

Toucan311 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 02:53 PM

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I'm looking for 90 no's... and I'm not looking for an explaination! Just praying not everyone comes!

klovess14 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 03:02 PM

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I would wonder to for some RSVP's... I already know some of my older family members won't come becuase the music is to loud. Your talking people in there 70's-80's

Dee0522 Posted: Jun 23, 2008 03:04 PM

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I was a litlte curious but honestly, most of our no's came from DH's side, most of whom I'd never met so I really didn't care too much about those!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jun 23, 2008 03:42 PM

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I wondered myself too!!! I got a no on Friday and it was from a woman I worked with. She told me she wouldn't miss it for the world! I was so disappointed!!!!

rmoses Posted: Jun 23, 2008 07:13 PM

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I won't believe anyone who says that they're coming until they respond 'yes' on the RSVP card. Some people just don't feel like going. Others have other obligations. I think if you send a 'Save the Date' months in advance and people say no, then you're just not that important to them.