no u call me, ill call you..grrr

so i talk to this guy online and always at the end of the convo he says 'ok call me later' now i love that he wants to chat but it irks me that i need to call him i feel like saying NO U CALL ME!! grr..i guess hes just trying to make it convenient for wheni m free and stuff but is it weird that it bothers me,,,lol im so weird

take the control girl. Its better when that is left up to you and not the guy..trust me it hurts alot more when they dont call when they say they will

nope, you aren't weird at all!!!

I do agree with Myasmom that its great to be the one 'in control' ... it puts you in a better position and not falling into the trap of 'waiting by the phone' etc.

But for whatever reason, when I was playing the dating game I didn't like being asked 'call me later, tomorrow, etc' or having the ball left in my court. I HATED being the one to have to pick up the phone and call, because it always felt like i was being a nusance, etc. I guess these were my teeny tiny old fashioned tendencies coming to play, but I always wanted to be 'chased' , rather than be the one to do the 'chasing' , if you catch my drift

DH and I joke all the time that even now, months into marriage, I STILL never call him!

I like that Felicia..tell DH you already caught him so you dont have to chase anymore.