Non-diamond/rhinestone jewelry?

Hi girls,

Does anyone have a suggestion on where I can find DOJ that's less glitzy (i.e. not a lot of diamond/rhinestone looking bling)? My dress has some simple beading (swarovski crystals, glass beads and some little pearls) scattered throughout and the blingy jewelry just doesn't look right.

Thanks!

ETA: Added pic of beadwork