I keep hearing that after marriage the frequency goes WAY down...but what is normal?? I've read studies that anywhere from once every other week to 4 times a week is normal.
nrvbrd
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Ok, I will bite, I think it depends on the couple, There are some people who are ok with having it 1x a week, while others need to have it 6 times a week. I do not think there is any 'normal frequency'.
As for me and DH we tend to aim for the higher end of the scale
NYCHICK
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I don't think is a normal frequency...completely depends on the couple.
HearzBellz
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I think maybe it is relative.....if you were a once a weeker before marriage & become a once a monther, than you have obviously declined......
We are still just as active if not more so since the HM
franksbride
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There are weeks when I'm so tired...and then others where I'm ready to go!!!
OctGroom
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I think every week is a different story.. and if you like.. different role playing as well.... LOL
OK.. seriously....
I think it may go down.. (uh ... heehee) a little bit after the HM.. but it will probably still be dependent on what's going on in life events... it'll go up and down.... literally!
Hope that this helps..
FeliciaDA
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There are weeks when I'm so tired...and then others where I'm ready to go!!!
I agree, it just depends on the circumstances, how you are feeling phyiscally, etc.... Sometimes with us its non-stop, other weeks it wanes .. real life stuff gets in the way, unfortunately. (and my obsession with this site and wedding planning, according to FH! LOL!)
I can remember when we first moved in together and was thinking we would have nookie ALL THE TIME, every night , 2x a night! HA! I think we put too much pressue on ourselves and it really declined at first..
