Not again

I just don't feel like doing anything. I picked up my invitations on Saturday and I love them. However, I'm not excited. We put together the list yesterday. Still nothing.

I look at pictures of myself in my dress and I hate how I look in it. I don't even want to look at food anymore.

Something must be wrong with me.

I'm sorry to always bug all of you with my shite. I just don't feel like talking to anyone else anymore. FH just dismisses it as stress. My mother tells me I'm fat all the time, so talking to her is out. My friends have their own issues to deal with now, so I can't bother them.

I should just cancel this wedding.

why would you want to cancel your wedding?

many girls have self-image issues...you are not alone...smile!!!

Weddings are very stressful...Im sorry your feeling down

You look gorgeous in your pics... We are our own worst critic.... Maybe take a week off from any planning or wedding talk and destress. Take a bath, get a massage.. get a facial and mani/pedi... Spa days always make me feel better.

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Posted by AndRecKy

why would you want to cancel your wedding?

many girls have self-image issues...you are not alone...smile!!!

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I should just cancel it because I feel worthless. I look like crap. I feel like crap. I can barely pay for school. My back is all messed up according to my chiropractor. My doctor is putting me on a higher dose of my anti-depressants.

It's just one thing on top of another. I should just jump in a hole and cover myself.

i think your just so overwhelmed and stress about everything..i dont think you should cancel your wedding =[

dont think about planning for a while and keep yourself busy with something else..

when you come back hopefully your feelings will change.



and everyone has self image issues
just try to think positive and beautiful! if you think positive and beautiful everything will become positive and beautiful!


am i making sense??

I understand. It can all be overwhelming, there were a few time. Shoot just last week, that made me want to curl up & wish I had another year or two. You just need to try & surround yourself with positive people. & do stuff for yourself that makes you feel powerful & sexy.

I am completely planning on doing some stuff just for me t make me feel all good & get myself out of all the planning stuff.

Hang in there

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Posted by dannisayz

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Posted by AndRecKy

why would you want to cancel your wedding?

many girls have self-image issues...you are not alone...smile!!!

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I should just cancel it because I feel worthless. I look like crap. I feel like crap. I can barely pay for school. My back is all messed up according to my chiropractor. My doctor is putting me on a higher dose of my anti-depressants.

It's just one thing on top of another. I should just jump in a hole and cover myself.

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the only reason i feel you should cancel is if you were not in love with your fh anymore...and your reasons do not indicate that is the case...you should appreciate him and his love for you--and his support!! you are a lucky girl to have him.

I looked at your pictures, and you look gorgeous in that dress. And you hair and make-up trials too - you're going to be a beautiful bride, and I'm sure there are many girls on here that hope they look as nice as you do in their dress!

You should really do something for yourself to challenge yourself. I'm not athletic and I decided to run the half marathon, and it made me so happy and proud of myself that I was able to train for it.

Now that the marathon is almost over, I am doing the Avon Walk where I need to raise $1,800 to do it. Its going to be so much work, but I know that I'll be really proud of myself once I get there.

I'm not saying it has to necessarily be something like that, but is there something you wish you could do that you don't? Pushing yourself is a real confidence booster, not to mention it gives you something to focus on that isn't quite as stressful as the rest of our lives.

And I think that if you love FH, there is no reason to call off the wedding. You will look beautiful and he will be happy and you just need a little more confidence!!!!

Thank you for the replies. I just wish I could see things the way all of you do.

I don't know what I'm going to do just yet. We'll see.

I'm not sure what to say, other than I'm thinking of you... and hoping you can find something to make you smile. Have you ever thought about talking with someone? Sometimes that can really help.

Try to be positive.

I also am going through a funk....

I know that anything I say isn't going to make you feel better, but I think you look GORGEOUS in your dress, and you are a beautiful girl!!

I ordered my dress 2 sizes too small, and when I tried it on in November it fit perfect...and I picked it up 2 weeks ago, and it WON'T ZIP!!! But yet 2 weeks later I haven't lost a pound!!! I just lack motivation...and I don't see why a dress sitting upstairs that I paid an arm and a leg for isn't motivation enough!! I am just stuck right now....

You are not alone...if you ever need to talk...FM me!! Def don't cancel your wedding!!

Aww, you're probably just overwhelmed right now. I think the closer to the date you get, it gets more stressful. I just looked at your pictures, and you look beautiful in your dress with your hair and makeup done!!

I have back and neck problems, so I understand how you feel.

Has the dosage on your medication been changed already? Maybe that is also effecting how you feel? Maybe you should let your doctor know how you're feeling...give it a little time to get through the transition of the dosage being adjusted?

Try to take a break from the planning and destress. I think someone else said it, maybe go for a massage...try and relax a little.

theres no such thing as perfect.. take a break from all this wedding business and relax at a spa.. or get a massage.. try and remember why you wanted to get married to begin with.. i love my FH and sometimes i get too caught up in the wedding crap that i forget the real reason we're getting married.. there was a point where i was tired of all this wedding crap.. so i did take a break from the planning for a few months n i got back into it eventually and got excited for it again.. like now... i hope u feel better soon

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Posted by Gigi08

Aww, you're probably just overwhelmed right now. I think the closer to the date you get, it gets more stressful. I just looked at your pictures, and you look beautiful in your dress with your hair and makeup done!!

I have back and neck problems, so I understand how you feel.

Has the dosage on your medication been changed already? Maybe that is also effecting how you feel? Maybe you should let your doctor know how you're feeling...give it a little time to get through the transition of the dosage being adjusted?

Try to take a break from the planning and destress. I think someone else said it, maybe go for a massage...try and relax a little.

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The dosage has not been changed yet. The doctor knows, which is why it is being altered.

Thanks for responding.

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The dosage has not been changed yet. The doctor knows, which is why it is being altered.

Thanks for responding.

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Aww, feel better.

Isn't that a little drastic? Cancelling the wedding?

I know right now you're going through a funk, but remember that only YOU can control how you feel. I'm a firm believer in thinking positive thoughts.

When you wake up, you have two choices - you can have a positive day or you can have a negative day. Posting things like this will only make you feel worse. You don't want people feeling sorry for you, do you? I know I wouldn't if I were in a funk. So I say take a jog or a walk around the block. Like someone else said - make a challenge for yourself and follow through with it. Do something (even if its small) to pick yourself up and begin to make a change.

I know that sometimes it's a chemical imbalanace and you NEED medication to help make things better...but I think you should also try to do something to make yourself feel better right now. Maybe go out and buy yourself an outfit that you look AMAZING in....? Or join a gym? Or find someone to work out with (maybe FH?). Especially if your dosage is being changed, you can't wait for it to kick in to feel better - that will take some time. So I say, try something new and fun in the meantime!

I'm sorry if this came across as 'tough love'...but I think saying that you want to cancel your wedding seems like a drastic solution to the self-image issues you're posting about.

Take deep breaths. It will pass. Just remember, you have a wonderful man in your life who only wants the best for you. So many people would give everything to find that special someone...

if you wanna get together and chat, i live in copiague....
we could go for coffee or whatever you like
I think talking to someone will help and i dont think you should cancel the wedding.
FM me if you like