Not so bad....

So about a week ago, I was venting on here about my Cousin and his wife replying with their 10 year old son. Well, I tossed around what to do for a little while, and I finally emailed her. I was sick to my stomach for a few days waiting for her to reply.....and she just did. Here it is.....I changed the names.

Hi Jess,

Not a problem - I understand. Derrick and I paid for our own wedding so I know all about it.

It just gives us a child free night then. :P




What a relief!!!!!

Thats great, you must feel so much better. At least she was understanding and it didnt go the other way. Now you can relax

Thats great she understands!!

That is great. I am glad it worked out so well.

oh great ! I could imagine how sick you felt I worry the same way sometimes and then realize all the worrying and stress was for nothing

really glad that the response was very rational

Now I just have to deal with my Dads best friend that wants to bring a date to show off to his soon-to-be ex-wife (who is also invited tot he wedding) We invited no one with 'and guest' we just don't have the room. Max capacity is 120 and we invited 150!!

wow thats awesome that it went so smooth jess!!

now....if i read correctly, both the guy and his soon to be ex are invited and he wants to bring a date to show off to the ex???

Come on guy!

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Posted by madseason

wow thats awesome that it went so smooth jess!!

now....if i read correctly, both the guy and his soon to be ex are invited and he wants to bring a date to show off to the ex???

Come on guy!

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Yup you heard right!!!!! He told my dad he's not sure if he is bringing a date because he wants to wait to see if his ex is coming. If his ex is coming he wants to bring a date, if she isn't then he is going to come stag.

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Posted by truelove5803

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Posted by madseason

wow thats awesome that it went so smooth jess!!

now....if i read correctly, both the guy and his soon to be ex are invited and he wants to bring a date to show off to the ex???

Come on guy!

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Yup you heard right!!!!! He told my dad he's not sure if he is bringing a date because he wants to wait to see if his ex is coming. If his ex is coming he wants to bring a date, if she isn't then he is going to come stag.

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whoa....ok were going to have to put this guy in line...

that's a relief!

that's great!!

A few of my cousins said that to me also when we said we weren't inviting kids!!