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not sure what to think

Original post by MikeandJess

FH just informed me that the friday night before the wedding his 3 brothers and now his cousin will be sleeping over our really tiny 1 bedroom apartment. Our wedding is that sunday but I'm really stressed as it is, I can't imagine what it'll be like 2 days before the wedding. Am I wrong to be upset over this? I know his brothers have no money and have no where to go so I understand why he offered but they're grown men they should be figuring it out for themselves! What would you do?

CandB4604 Posted:

Re: not sure what to think

I think I wouldn't want them there either. Not to insult them at all. I think I'd be stressed out enough. Here's what I'd do though..I wouldn't want them to have to spend any $$ they don't have. So, I'd see if there was a close friend of yours or FH's that they can crash at?

rmoses Posted:

Re: not sure what to think

Everyone is different. I'm actually sleeping over my mom's house and SHE has kicked EVERYONE out including her brother and his wife who will be flying in from ISRAEL!

It depends on the person. I need my peace and quiet as well. Others don't care. It's a personal thing. If it's not good for you, explain to your fiance and offer to put them up in a hotel/motel. Mention to them that they'll probably have better accommodations and that you will not be in a mood to entertain.
bluekat16 Posted:

Re: not sure what to think

Posted by Maria31

Posted by Bride908

please dont be insulted - but honestly if it was me, I would take them in no problem. JMHO


I'd have to agree...



I'd have to agree also.
MikeandJess Posted:

Re: not sure what to think

Posted by bluekat16

Posted by Maria31

Posted by Bride908

please dont be insulted - but honestly if it was me, I would take them in no problem. JMHO


I'd have to agree...



I'd have to agree also.


If it was anyone else i'd agree too. Did you all not read the post where they got in a fist fight the last time they stayed with us and almost broke the plasma and the wine cabinet?? Don't get me wrong, I really appreciate everyone's opinions
KSquared Posted:

Re: not sure what to think

Posted by Bride908

please dont be insulted - but honestly if it was me, I would take them in no problem. JMHO


I agree.

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