I'm not planning on getting married until Sept 2010. My FH and i already pretty much know who our bridal party is. My mom thinks it's too early to tell them since we have almost 2 years till our wedding.
What do u girls think?
marrymybestfriend
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I have only asked one cousin and a SUPER close friend of mine (who also happens to be a 2010 bride, i cant get her to sign up for LIW though...hmph)
Everyone else i am waiting on, you never know what could happen...I still havent even picked a MOH either...
Gaby... just so you know... Shawn asked me to be one of his ushers
Christine N Ralph
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Wait until the day comes closer. When we got engaged I was soooo anxious to tell everyone- and one bm dropped out and other people were added later on. I wish I would have waited and asked everyone at the same time!
marrymybestfriend
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i made the mistake of telling THREE guys that i want them to be my best man. but never asked anyone officially. now it's like... what do i do?? as of right now... i have asked one... i wanna have 2 and ask a second... but that third guy is gonna be pissed. i'm gonna have to suck it up and just have the one.. because he has been my best friend for 14 years. he was the clear cut choice, and everyone knew that
Future Mrs H
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I asked mine already but we are having a small wedding party. MOH, RB, and Jr. BM are family and I know that wont change and BM if FH best friends since 1st grade. So I wasnt worried to ask them right away
futureMrsJSL
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I told them all already. I do not think any of our relationships will change (I hope). But I understand why you might want to wait a little bit before you ask them.
mikendeanna
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I haven't told anyone yet! My best friends assume they are in it but, I am honestly scared to ask this early!
mikendeanna
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Im getting married July 2010... My engagement party is on Valentines Day do you think I should ask them at my party of wait?????
rocketsummer17
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Posted by rocketsummer17
I have only asked one cousin and a SUPER close friend of mine (who also happens to be a 2010 bride, i cant get her to sign up for LIW though...hmph)
Everyone else i am waiting on, you never know what could happen...I still havent even picked a MOH either...
Gaby... just so you know... Shawn asked me to be one of his ushers
thats fine!! You can even wear your football vest under your jacket!!
little j
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Im getting married July 2010... My engagement party is on Valentines Day do you think I should ask them at my party of wait?????
If you want them there, you should ask them now. I think many people are already considering v-day plans.
GL!
kimmaymb20
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I know who I want to be in my party and so does FH but I am going to wait a little bit before we ask them. The only one who knows who I want in my party besides FH is my mom because she asked me when I picked her up from work the other night. MY MOH and bridesmaids are going to be all family anyway. FH is having a tough time trying to figure out his best man
mosh424
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We both have asked everyone. Half are people who we have been friends with for a very long time (elementary friends, and college roommates), and the other half is family so I don't see anything happening with any of ours.
But you should wait until you feel comfortable.
Rosa29
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I sent out cards a month after I was engaged.
Engaged 5/3/08 Married 7/31/10
mAndm2010
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I'm just about to ask mine...we've thought about it for about 2 months and are sure about our choices...but there are benefits to waiting...if you know your relationship will stay the same with the girls (or guys) you want to ask, then I say go for it whenever you are ready
JoanneAndJustin
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I only asked my MOH. We'll be asking the rest shortly.
Star71901
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We haven't 'officially asked' anyone yet, except FH's brother to be his best man, and our siblings....We are not sure, however, of who were gonna have additionally because it can either be like 10 ppl total or about 25...were prob gonna wait till sometime over to summer to finalize the BP party though...
