now im gonna scream

my FH has been telling me he cant afford to help out then I tell him my sister will have the RD at her house to save me money now he tells me no thats not good enough and he will pay for it himself.
He has also told me many times his mom cant help out because she cant afford it now that he has decided to help pay for the RD he is going to ask his mom for money. Is there something wrong with this picture. Why wouldn't he ask her for help in the first place.
Im totally venting and sorry for the rant but i think im going to kill him.

FH's are just weird like that sometimes. Mine is the same way. Maybe u guys can compromise and have the dinner at your sister's but have it catered by his favorite restaurant? That should be a bit cheaper.

Sorry I can't give better advice...I don't think anything I say will make u feel better!

Sorry---I just read your other posting (100 days to go). I think we all go through this at some point. Fighting a lot over stupid things that seem important but aren't really.

Things will work out. They just take time.

FM me if u need to 'talk' more but don't want to post certain things!

Ugh im sorry to hear that...I would be annoyed too!!!

I would be annoyed too because you went through a lot with getting the RD at a house and to try to save money etc......