NOW MY FSIL's 'situation has changed' and she can't come to my bridal shower....

This is getting unbelievable!

FI's brother's wife (so this isn't FI's actual sister, but sister in law) sent in an RSVP card about a month ago saying she'd come to my bridal shower...now all of a sudden she leaves a message on my mother's answering machine that she isn't coming to the shower because her circumstances have changed.

That's it?

THis is the woman who started all the drama a few days ago that her 3yo and 6yo are not invited to the wedding.

Maybe this is what it's about, maybe not. I'm just so confused.

First my FMIL, now my FSIL.

I know, them not being there really won't matter to me, my family will be there...but how petty are things going to get?

Dont even take another moment's thought about it.

Go and enjoy yourself. Keep reminding yourself it's all about you and your day. If they want to take part in it and share it's moments with you, all the better, if not, you'll go do what you want to do anyway.

Don't let it bring you down.

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Posted by Nora101004

I agree- who needs them, they'd prb just tell you that you should have gotten coke, not pepsi.

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I totally Agree LOL. People like that will just sit there the whole time and ***** about everything and not only hurt ure feelings but other peoples 2.