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Are the two of you friends independent of FH and her DH? If not then I personally would not be offended. JMO.

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Oh, some people are just HORRIBLE at communication. I know I am. Everyone is always calling me.

Plus, she probably has a million things going on with getting back the wedding proofs, video, setting up a list of thank-you's.

give her a call and say welcome home. Ask her how it went. I don't think she is snubbing you. Maybe next time he calls FH ask if she is around and see if you two can chat on the phone.

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i know you want the best for Fh and his best friend but honestly I would stop calling because you have attempted a couple of times with no answer! maybe she's too busy right now?? do you and her have tension with each other?? just stop for now! don't worry if they are best friends they will contact each other but that was nice of you from calling and stuff

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do the two of u ever hang out without the boys? she may just think of you as her husbands best friends fiance and not like a girlfriend...or she just may be really bad at communication...i think it depends on the situation.

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I was sooooo busy when I got back from my honeymoon!!! DH was fine... but I had family to contact.. plenty of calls to make.. back to work, which I slacked on before the wedding for two weeks.. household stuff to get done..etc..
She probably has A LOT on her plate right now, other than giving you a call.

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since u have tried reaching out several times i would stop for now and see if she gets back to you....it should be a two way street so i wouldn't keep calling her if shes not getting back to you

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she doesn't work, her FMIL takes care of everything for them so she doesnt have to worry and she invited all of her friends over on saturday night so i dont think that's it... idk i have to talk to fh and see what he thinks- i def dont want to make it an issue but this girl continuously forgets me when i never forget her... its sad.. i mean after 6 years of being with fh, this girl still didn't include my last name on the wedding invitation or the table setting... i guess i need to reevaluate my 'friends'

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this has happened to me with a few people and ive just given up theres no reason for you to go out of your way

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I'm picturing if this was my fsil who wasn't calling me back, whom I'm close with bc our fh's are brother, and yes I'd be a little hurt. I understand that when you come home you have tons to do and lots of people to call but I'd expect to be one of those people if I were in your situation. I agree with the other poster to wait until your fh is on the phone with hers and then ask if she can come to the phone, so you're not technically calling her yet again. I wouldn't stop calling personally only bc I know it would bother me to not confront the situation. I don't think it has be an argument I would just question did you get my text on Easter or this and that to kind of clear the air.

Is this the same girl who didn't have you in the wedding when you expected to be and your fh was? That may have been another poster though, not sure.

Hang in there!

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Posted by Jenna_and_John

I'm picturing if this was my fsil who wasn't calling me back, whom I'm close with bc our fh's are brother, and yes I'd be a little hurt. I understand that when you come home you have tons to do and lots of people to call but I'd expect to be one of those people if I were in your situation. I agree with the other poster to wait until your fh is on the phone with hers and then ask if she can come to the phone, so you're not technically calling her yet again. I wouldn't stop calling personally only bc I know it would bother me to not confront the situation. I don't think it has be an argument I would just question did you get my text on Easter or this and that to kind of clear the air.

Is this the same girl who didn't have you in the wedding when you expected to be and your fh was? That may have been another poster though, not sure.

Hang in there!

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Yes Jenna, this is the same girl.. See you are a good person because you remembered!!

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Posted by Jenna_and_John

I'm picturing if this was my fsil who wasn't calling me back, whom I'm close with bc our fh's are brother, and yes I'd be a little hurt. I understand that when you come home you have tons to do and lots of people to call but I'd expect to be one of those people if I were in your situation. I agree with the other poster to wait until your fh is on the phone with hers and then ask if she can come to the phone, so you're not technically calling her yet again. I wouldn't stop calling personally only bc I know it would bother me to not confront the situation. I don't think it has be an argument I would just question did you get my text on Easter or this and that to kind of clear the air.

Is this the same girl who didn't have you in the wedding when you expected to be and your fh was? That may have been another poster though, not sure.

Hang in there!

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Yes Jenna, this is the same girl.. See you are a good person because you remembered!!

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I have a hardcore memory it drives FH nuts lol. Keep in mind though you've been very thoughtful in checking in with her so there's nothing wrong with wanting to know why you haven't heard from her. I don't think a text back on Easter would've killed her ya know?

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I can understand why you would feel hurt. Maybe like others said she is just super busy, but maybe she does not consider the type of friend that you consider her to be. It sounds like independent of her DH and your FH, you would not be friends.

Why waste your time? Just be civil when you get together and put your attention towards your other friends...

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I WAS in a similar situation with one of FH's friends wives. Now, I just don't call her anymore. She has definitely noticed, and she's been making more of an effort. Sometimes., a *little*
reverse psychology goes a long way. You don't have to be maliscious about it, just train yourself not to expect too much.