On average...every other day, lately with stress and all its more like every 2-3 days. Normally its him who lights the fire-not often me.
I dont know about your FH but mine swears he gets it alot less then other guys But that I know is not true-being that i know plentyof girls and I ask
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Interesting question.. I think theres a lot less of it happening than is happening.. Am I alone or is the horizontal boogie a weekly thing???
the future mrs m
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we do it every single day at all hours of the day no matter what. even if we are sick, happy, sad, stressed-- we still do it and somehow it makes us feel better and happier.
I am going to london next month for a little over a week w/o fh--i hope we aren't too grumpy without it :)
We are both 'fire starters'---one glance or smile can change our plans very quickly. lol...
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Once a week...not enough for me!
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we dont live together & see each other only about 3 days a week- so its all three days & we both start it
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Lately with Fh it's been more like a forest fire. It just keeps spreading. Some days I need a hose to put him out
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Lately with Fh it's been more like a forest fire. It just keeps spreading. Some days I need a hose to put him out
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lmaooo... ok. then its just us!
FH and i havent done it since we got engaged on 11/11/07!!!! last freakin year for heaven's sake. I am always the person who starts and it doesnt seem to bother him one bit. its not a new thing either. he has always been like this. half of me is pissed and the other half is sad. i finally am with a guy who i want to be with 24-7 and he doesnt want to ever do it. i know he loves me, but its very much a shot to the ego
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Posted by BklynBride2Be
lmaooo... ok. then its just us!
FH and i havent done it since we got engaged on 11/11/07!!!! last freakin year for heaven's sake. I am always the person who starts and it doesnt seem to bother him one bit. its not a new thing either. he has always been like this. half of me is pissed and the other half is sad. i finally am with a guy who i want to be with 24-7 and he doesnt want to ever do it. i know he loves me, but its very much a shot to the ego
i would just talk to him about it-- im not sure because the fh & i consider eachother freaks loll-- we NEED it to function properly but that may not be everyone else--
maybe he is stressed out about other things-- I would just sit him down and talk to him and tell him that you have a little problem -- tell him how you feel--- see what he has to say about it--
hth
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It is normally him lighting the fire but thats an every day thing. I am normally in the mood maybe twice a week!
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Posted by BklynBride2Be
lmaooo... ok. then its just us!
FH and i havent done it since we got engaged on 11/11/07!!!! last freakin year for heaven's sake. I am always the person who starts and it doesnt seem to bother him one bit. its not a new thing either. he has always been like this. half of me is pissed and the other half is sad. i finally am with a guy who i want to be with 24-7 and he doesnt want to ever do it. i know he loves me, but its very much a shot to the ego
This happens to a lot of couples - just talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel. All guys don't have the same drive either - so just know it's not anything on your part.
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Not as often as either of would like.
Typically only once or twice a week. We'd like every other day (at least) but we both live at home and it's difficult to find a place...
Anyone else have this issue?
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Posted by DeeluvsVinny
Not as often as either of would like.
Typically only once or twice a week. We'd like every other day (at least) but we both live at home and it's difficult to find a place...
Anyone else have this issue?
same, we both live at home and have no privacy whats so ever, so basically whenever we get a chance.
AugustBridein09
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Everyday....and we both start.
MrsPags
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We usually go for it every otherday- Our schedules sometimes conflict and I have been working soooo much lately that I feel bad but I am beat! It used to be equal initiation, now it seems more like him being the firestarter. I know I have to put a bit more effort into initiating
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yea so FH refers to me as a camel because i can do it once and be good all month lol i just dont have energy we used to do it all the time before we had our daughter but half the time i jsut cant muster up the energy...i have my daughter who hangs on me all day long when she goes to bed the last thing i want is FH hanging on my all night lol!!! god its bad
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Not very often because of work schedules. We aim for 2 x a week but doesn't happen tlike that always. But we spend a lot of time together; lotsa snuggling and hand holding and thats important also.
DeeluvsVinny
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I'm showing Fh this thread, because he insists we are the only ones who never get to do it.
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Posted by DeeluvsVinny
Not as often as either of would like.
Typically only once or twice a week. We'd like every other day (at least) but we both live at home and it's difficult to find a place...
Anyone else have this issue?
yes-- hotels get annoying too like ok we are going to have sex now loll-- but we are spontaneous too and get around ppl being home-- loll wherever theres a will theres a way-- haha--
