So, my FH and I have decided that we want to move to Rhode Island after we get married, and even though our wedding isn't for a while, I am getting anxiety.
I am excited but worried... I guess it's normal.
I am worried about not fitting in, finding a job, getting my RI Nursing License, driving (because I hardly drive in NY), being so far away from my parents, leaving behind everything I know, etc.
I've lived in NY my entire life, so I guess this change is going to be a HUGE one...and I'm ALREADY worrying! I must not be normal...or maybe I am, lol!
Goodness...just needed to let it out...
MommaMia
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I love rhode island. It is about the size of long island and living is pretty much the same. My matron of honor actually lives there! Seasons are wonderful and it's only a 3.15 hr drive if u time it right to come back to NY. If you have any questions fm me!! Hth
Xo
Soon2BMrsB2013
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OMG I am going through the SAME thing only we are talking about moving to California. I didnt go away to school and I moved out at a late age. I currently live half an hour from my parents and i think its far. FH dream is to be behind the camera on movies and there are no jobs here really. His brother just moved to LA and now his girlfriend is going to be in a show so he feels he can get a great job there. I am like FREAKING out because of it.
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My fiance and I moved to Maryland about a year ago. I had so much anxiety and nerves before the move. I hated my first job here and it only made it worse. but once I found a job I liked I felt a lot better. I have been down here for about 1 1/2 years now and I love it.
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My fiance and I moved to Maryland about a year ago. I had so much anxiety and nerves before the move. I hated my first job here and it only made it worse. but once I found a job I liked I felt a lot better. I have been down here for about 1 1/2 years now and I love it.
I guess everything takes time. It's so strange to think that I'll be living somewhere else in a couple of years! I'm glad you love it there!!
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Turns out I'm moving to the UK for a bit after we get married.. across the pond so to speak and not in London! I'm freaking out and a little bit upset but trying to take it in stride.
I have no friends there anymore or family there. I have to learn to drive on the opposite side of the road, but not only that, I have to learn how to drive stick!
This is huge. I've lived there before but going back to know I'm LIVING there is another thing. I know I hate the grey and the weird sunset and sunrise time there. So friggin dark by the time I used to get out in the morning and evening. The stores close ridiculously early unless you count Tesco, a supermarket... They eat too much curry. Curry in chinese food!! arghhhh I won't like that again.
At least they have nice clothes and cheap flights to other places in Europe.
Rhode Island sounds so so so good at this moment, but FI will be with me so that'll be fantastic!
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Turns out I'm moving to the UK for a bit after we get married.. across the pond so to speak and not in London! I'm freaking out and a little bit upset but trying to take it in stride.
I have no friends there anymore or family there. I have to learn to drive on the opposite side of the road, but not only that, I have to learn how to drive stick!
This is huge. I've lived there before but going back to know I'm LIVING there is another thing. I know I hate the grey and the weird sunset and sunrise time there. So friggin dark by the time I used to get out in the morning and evening. The stores close ridiculously early unless you count Tesco, a supermarket... They eat too much curry. Curry in chinese food!! arghhhh I won't like that again.
At least they have nice clothes and cheap flights to other places in Europe.
Rhode Island sounds so so so good at this moment, but FI will be with me so that'll be fantastic!
Lol, honestly you know, I'd rather move to Europe. I know exactly how things are over there...the early closing times...the people, the food...I don't know. I guess I'm strange with regards to that. The only thing that would suck would be the weather in the UK for me.
We'll both be fine, I guess. Lol...we have to breath and take it in stride haha!!
PSP
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Lol, honestly you know, I'd rather move to Europe. I know exactly how things are over there...the early closing times...the people, the food...I don't know. I guess I'm strange with regards to that. The only thing that would suck would be the weather in the UK for me.
We'll both be fine, I guess. Lol...we have to breath and take it in stride haha!!
Yes We'll both be FiNE! maybe... LOL
Now I remember summers had like no darkness too. extremes on that were quite weird. dark dark dark winters and bright summers that'd wake me up too early in the morning. arghhhhh LOLL
Helematu7
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Lol, honestly you know, I'd rather move to Europe. I know exactly how things are over there...the early closing times...the people, the food...I don't know. I guess I'm strange with regards to that. The only thing that would suck would be the weather in the UK for me.
We'll both be fine, I guess. Lol...we have to breath and take it in stride haha!!
Yes We'll both be FiNE! maybe... LOL
Now I remember summers had like no darkness too. extremes on that were quite weird. dark dark dark winters and bright summers that'd wake me up too early in the morning. arghhhhh LOLL
LOL! Oh man...the brightness seems awesome...but I hate the dark...with a passion! Agh!
