FH and I are considering moving in together in a few months. How hard is the transition? I know we are getting married, but doing it soon makes me little nervous.
melissaandsean
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I think it can be a difficult transition. Living with anyone can be difficult, but that's just my opinion.
We moved in together after 3 months of dating. After almost 2 years of that, we separated. For us, we just moved too fast and didn't really 'date'. So we dated for 1 1/2 years before moving back in together and ever since it's been wonderful. If we hadn't separated and lived apart, we'd never be where we are today.
Sweetpea130000
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We have been living together for a year and a half and I also dont ever remember it being hard. Maybe b/c from almost the time we started dating (5 years ago) I was staying at his house every weekend and then it became more and more days a week so we got used to it.
Also, since we both lived on our own we are saving a ton of money this way.
Best of luck to you
brooklynbridezilla
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We have been together for 6.5 years, and living together for the last 1.5. I had been living with a pain in the arse roomate, so I was excited to be moving in with FH. It took some getting used to, but I wouldn't say it was hard. I am glad we moved in together- it has saved us a lot of $, and we don't have to deal with the stress of wedding planning AND getting used to living together. I can't imagine apartment hunting and wedding planning- I would go INSANE.
cantwait2bewed
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Me and my FH have been living together for 2 years now. At times its very hard b/c we are around each other all the time. But it has its advantages: Like we get to save more money which is helping us buy a home together, we get to cuddle with each other every night ( i almost can't fall asleep w/o FH by my side at night), and we get all the arguments that come with moving in with someeone for the first time out of the way. I love living with FH, but i have to admit sometimes I need a break from him. But otherwise i love it!!
lcherian
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both of our parents would kill us if we lived together!
leighdvm
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We've lived together for about a year now and it's great! I loved and trusted him enough to know we would be getting married, whether we lived together or not.
bluesashbride
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FH and i have lived together since june (we were already engaged) and its been a good test of whether we really want to get married (heck yes!) and good practice on how to have a better relationship. while it wasn't an easy adjustment, we are really glad we did it. its almost surreal sometimes when i think about it, i'm not really sure why. maybe because now we have so much fun since a lot of the adjusting is done. and i forget there can be a stigma to living together because it seems so normal to me now. i'll be glad when we're legal though!! only 79 more days!!
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Posted by lcherian
both of our parents would kill us if we lived together!
LOL and MY mom wanted me to go out and have an affair so she could have another baby to play with. She has gotten nuts in her old age.
edsprincess
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Me and my FH have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. He asked me to move in with him after 5 mths of dating for several reasons. Today is 2 yrs.i would definitely recommend it. You really get to know each other better. You might get on each others nerve sometimes but you learn to communicate with each other. Every body said if you can get through living together before marriage you can get through marriage. I think its true.
BEANS
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Posted by eogara
We've been living together for a year and a half. If you're even considering it, I'd go for it. IMO it's better to get all the crap that goes into living together out of the way so that when you get married, you can just concentrate on dealing with and adjusting to the married part of it.
Everyone I ask is telling me to go for it! Thanks--By the way your big day is one month from tomorrow!
