NWR But I really need advice and dont know what to do!!
Original post by AJsMommy122
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I have a really good friends since I was in pampers. To try and make a long story short she has been with her boyfriend for almost 5 years. They were engaged at one point about 2 years ago and all of a sudden out of nowhere she dumped him, gave back the ring and started dating someone else! We were all in shock! Well this new guy kinda dissed her after a few months and eventually she and her boyfriend got back together but not re-engaged. He is a GREAT guy and my DH and him have gotten close over the past year. They were BOTH in our bridal party even. Well last week I heard from a VERY reliable source that my friend cheated on her boyfriend. Not just kissed some guy.. Slept with him and everything. My DH is sooo upset and wants to tell her boyfriend. I think its none of our business plus its not like we have proof and she will just deny it and all friendships will be ruined. DH then confided in me that her boyfriend is planning on re-proposing soon and thinks he has the right to know ( he says if the shoe were on the other foot he would want someone to tell him)
I haven't told DH but I know of 2 other times she cheated on her current BF ( I don't know to what extent the cheating was in those other situations) but she had told me herself & has repeatedly brought up the fact that she can't believe she did something like that, and how she was stupid and would never make that mistake again.
Sorry so long but I am soooo lost!! Any advice would be appreciated!!!
CubanBride
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Re: NWR But I really need advice and dont know what to do!!
Posted by Marisa M
Tell your DH to keep quiet - He's had a friend for a few years, YOU have had a friend for a lifetime. -So personally I think he should stay out of it. However, I think YOU should talk to her and let her know what's going on. Give her the benefit of a million years of your trust and friendship - b/c if you or your DH go behind her back to tell her boyfriend, all of those years will be lost. And to be honest, even though she is wrong to be cheating, YOU are HER friend - So yes, you tell her what's up and you tell her she's wrong, but you don't betray her friendship and trust by telling her boyfriend. - JMO I'm sure you'll figure it out. That's an awful and akward spot for you and your FH to be put in .........
