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NWR but need to vent....**update**

Glamorousbride Posted:

NWR but need to vent....**update**

Okay- a while ago I posted a comment about my cousin's sweet 16, and them putting me and fh at a children's table.

Now I found out that my cousin is seperating me and my fh on her candles, because she doesn't want her other cousins ot be jealous........how messed up is that??? it's not a big deal, it's just another smack in the face.



I'm sorrrrry for venting about something so small, but i just feel like everyone is being so disrespectful to me lately..i can't talk to anyone about it because they get too frustrated.

sooooo thank you for letting me vent!

--I know it all sounds really ridiculous- but how do i explain to fh when he asks me 'christina why doesn't your family regard me as a man.'-- for right or for wrong, I need to stand by my fh and not my aunt and uncle.

They do these things, don't listen to anyone else's feelings about things, and then expect you to be 110% okay with how they do things. THE PARTY IS JUST AN EXAMPLE.
snydl40 Posted:

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Don't let them get to you.
Glamorousbride Posted:

Re: NWR but need to vent....

It is soooo hard not to..but i guess i have no choice.

Glamorousbride Posted:

Re: NWR but need to vent....**update**

Okay- I can tell you girls think I am crazy lol. It's just so frustrating-- for my wedding I did everything anyone asked me to do and now I'm constantly being smacked in the face, by those same people.

I know! It's stupid to dwell on this, but I can't talk to my mother or FH, because they get upset.
PegaLega Posted:

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Dont let it get to you-look at it as you are the better person for trying to make sure everyone is happy, chalk it up to being inconsiderate
jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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that stinks. i'm put in that position sometimes too b/c my fam still thinks i'm a baby and they just don't realize how old you are now. but i just suck it up and try to get them back some other way.

like i was invited to a wedding last year and was put on the same invite as my parents!! i couldn't even bring a date!!! i ended up not going. i'm all about doing the right thing but this time i'm just NOT inviting the couple that got married to MY wedding. i'm inviting their parents. after all, i'm just a kid right??
cmrcmr0430 Posted:

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aprlflwr Posted:

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You seem like such a sweet person, I am sorry you are going through this.
TLC1018 Posted:

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sometimes it gets hard to continuously be the bigger person...but when you are the bigger person, you just cant help it!

mskittynj Posted:

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Stand by your man!!!!!! That's the right thing to do!!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

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