NWR - Dilemma!!!!

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 25, 2008 08:57 PM

NWR - Dilemma!!!!

Most of you know I am an AP - I have been for 5 years (this is my 5th)

so today, my principal called me into her office and said that the superintendent wants to recommend me for the Aspiring Principal's Program!!

OK - I know it sounds great! I was FLOORED!
Here is my dilemma
I never thought about being a principal - not at this point in my life (before kids) It is SOOO time consuming and SOO much more responsibility than I already have

I feel like it is a GREAT opportunity for me and I dont want to tell the superintendent no for fear of NOT being considered in the future.

Any Advice??
FH said to GO FOR IT!! I love being in my building and the thought of NOT being there in September scares the HELLL out of me

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:01 PM

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I think that is a wonderful opportunity, and maybe if you pass it up now, in fear of what you do in the future TTC and all, you may regret it.

I agree with your FH and say go for it!!!
and Congrats!! How exciting

Snick n Nick Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:02 PM

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I would go for it! I know someone who was in a similar place and ended up getting invited to an aspiring principals program, and decided to do it and didn't regret it--sometimes you just have to seize the opportunities as they come! congrats!!

jeanne08 Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:03 PM

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Go for it! or you'll alway s wonder 'What if?'

chrispar Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:06 PM

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Honestly it sounds like an amazing opportunity and you seem like a very strong willed hardworking person so I am sure that you will excel in this position. As far as having a family, I am sure you will be able to do both. The only thing I may hesitate with if it were me was if I wanted to have children right away which I know you would want to would it be fair to accept a position and then go out on maternity leave but then again Life Happens!!!! What a nice compliment to you!!!

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:06 PM

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thanks girls

i know what you mean
the 'problem' is that i already did a similar program so i have my license if i wanted to apply for a principal position

the difference is that this kind of forces you into a position and it can be anywhere in NYC

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:11 PM

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laura, i thikn this is a GREAT oppurtunity, and CONGRATS!

u are doing a great thing already and they want you to do more!!!

i also see how you my worry about what will happen and what you want to plan for... but what if those things dont fall into place right away... and then u may be torturing urself over this passed up opporunity.

good luck!

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:12 PM

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Seriously Laura - do it. Good luck!

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:14 PM

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Posted by Snowflake08

thanks girls

i know what you mean
the 'problem' is that i already did a similar program so i have my license if i wanted to apply for a principal position

the difference is that this kind of forces you into a position and it can be anywhere in NYC

make a list of pros and cons...

alymikewedding08 Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:23 PM

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I think it is an AMAZING opportunity. There is no doubt about that.. but I know what you mean about it being time consuming. As a principal.. how possible is it for you to take maternity leave? I wish you so much luck with whatever you choose!

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:38 PM

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thanks so much ladies
i think i'll take jen's advice and make a list of pros and cons
maybe next week after the wedding i'll have a clearer head
it was just baffling hearing this at 715 in the AM

kimandvin Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:51 PM

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I think if you are offered that opportunity take and see what the future brings.. WHo knows what will happen but atleast you will have the experience under your belt!

SparkyandAng Posted: Jan 25, 2008 10:20 PM

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Posted by jeanne08

Go for it! or you'll alway s wonder 'What if?'

I agree!

heathermatt Posted: Jan 25, 2008 10:23 PM

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Congrats...My only question is...if it is in the city...Just watch your back...I finally left the city after 6 years of being there and started teachign on LI...I have never been more relaxed..I know my old principal who was an ap and the went into a similar program has had a couple of ahrd years as a principal...

Wifeynella Posted: Jan 25, 2008 10:23 PM

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I'm with FH and other brides... go for it. Regardless of your job you'd go on maternity leave so why not go as a principal

CONGRATS btw. thats so awesome

Hawks Nest Posted: Jan 25, 2008 10:28 PM

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I say go for it. Your principal and superintendent obviously think very high of you to recommend you for the program. If you are seriously unsure about it, why don't you talk to your principal about it. Maybe she/he can give you some advice.

BellaChandella Posted: Jan 25, 2008 10:34 PM

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Laura! CONGRATS!!

I say GO FOR IT! Everything happens for a reason... that's what my good friends always say

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 25, 2008 10:35 PM

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Posted by heathermatt

Congrats...My only question is...if it is in the city...Just watch your back...I finally left the city after 6 years of being there and started teachign on LI...I have never been more relaxed..I know my old principal who was an ap and the went into a similar program has had a couple of ahrd years as a principal...

ive been in the city for 12 years and have no intentions of leaving

i live in queens and love it so that is not the issue but thanks

Celest Posted: Jan 25, 2008 11:18 PM

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Posted by Snowflake08

thanks so much ladies
i think i'll take jen's advice and make a list of pros and cons
maybe next week after the wedding i'll have a clearer head
it was just baffling hearing this at 715 in the AM

Good. That is a great plan. It is a decision you definitely have to make for yourself.

I have someone that wants me to go for a position, but I know with my work, business & life right now . it may be more than my threshold for pain at this time. & I do not think I want to complicate my life further. Also My gut says this may not be the right time.

SO follow your gut & heart, weigh eveyrthing out & you will choose what is best for you.

Nothing is permanent either way so don't stress it girl.. You have a wedding to look forward to!!!