So yesterday I posted how FH is not into excercising right now. Well I realized last night that he has been really down since he got laid off (duh right?). He has had interviews that he hasn't told me about, when I asked him why he said 'I just want to be able to tell you I got hired somewhere'.
I don't feel like I've been sensitive enough during the past few months because I've been so preoccupied with my own anxieties about his situation. I want him to be able to talk to me about the good and the bad...that's what marriage is all about right?
So just had to vent..thanks for reading
AdriandSteve
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Posted by lori7570
Posted by AdriandSteve
I think it's good and important that you took a step back and realized how you might be acting and what the reasons were for it. (gee... do i sound like a caseworker/sw/whatever the hell my title is lol)
I think all the ideas the other girls had are great
Thanks...the worst part about it is that I'm a therapist!!!
Talk about not following your own advice
They say that most psychologists, social workers, therapists go into the field in the first place to find out what's wrong with them lol. j/k
you are def not the only one lol.
Lsorrent
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Posted by AdriandSteve
Posted by lori7570
Posted by AdriandSteve
I think it's good and important that you took a step back and realized how you might be acting and what the reasons were for it. (gee... do i sound like a caseworker/sw/whatever the hell my title is lol)
I think all the ideas the other girls had are great
Thanks...the worst part about it is that I'm a therapist!!!
Talk about not following your own advice
They say that most psychologists, social workers, therapists go into the field in the first place to find out what's wrong with them lol. j/k
you are def not the only one lol.
That's for sure. I NEVER take my own advice....and I should too, because it's usually pretty good, if I do say so myself
lori7570
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Posted by Lsorrent
Posted by AdriandSteve
Posted by lori7570
Posted by AdriandSteve
I think it's good and important that you took a step back and realized how you might be acting and what the reasons were for it. (gee... do i sound like a caseworker/sw/whatever the hell my title is lol)
I think all the ideas the other girls had are great
Thanks...the worst part about it is that I'm a therapist!!!
Talk about not following your own advice
They say that most psychologists, social workers, therapists go into the field in the first place to find out what's wrong with them lol. j/k
you are def not the only one lol.
That's for sure. I NEVER take my own advice....and I should too, because it's usually pretty good, if I do say so myself
jenniejdyl
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Lori...it seems like you're taking all the right steps at recognizing and making this better. Thats what its all about! Marriage is totally based on communication (amogst other things)...so make sure you & FH have open airways!! I'm SURE he appreciates everything you do for him and knows you support him 100% -but it's always nice to hear it every once in a while as well -just extra confirmation!! Hang in there..
kimmaymb20
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Lori again i so understand where you are coming from.
MayBride2010
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I understand...it certainly is difficult - I hope things are working out for you guys! The whole idea of marriage is such a new concept for both the bride and groom to be - but you guys will get through it together (now I just gotta listen to my own advice LOL)
