NWR- having kids??

Original post by christine2010

Oct 07, 2008 10:48 AM

i know its a little early to be talking about this but, when is everyone planning on having kids?? what makes you think this way??

RitasEngaged Posted: Oct 07, 2008 11:37 AM

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Posted by rocketsummer17

Posted by jenny8484

Posted by RitasEngaged

We will probably only have 1 - maybe 2. I always wanted 3 than I changed my mind to 2 but financially I think we can only have 1. Now I feel like I only want one anyway because I don't have patience anymore. I am one of 7 so definately won't have that.

I really want to start a year after we are married, FH wants to start in 5 years so i know that will be a huge fight.

I really want a son. I want no part of a daughter!!

LOL my FH is the same way. He said we are having 2 boys.. im like Yeahhh ok..

thats funny your FH's onyl want boys, my FH wants girls so badly!!!

He wants a girl so badly too. I am like no we are just having boys. He laughs and is always like how are we going to pull that off. But everytime he sees a teenage girl at the mall and how she dresses he says he will kill someone if we have a girl

christine2010 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 11:37 AM

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Posted by Dazzlin217

We both want kids. but i want them so bad. i cant wait to have them. I really dont know how many. FH says 3 but yea i am not too sure about that. we will see. only time can tell.

don't have 3. then one will have middle child syndrome. lol.. i am a middle child & i hate it

RitasEngaged Posted: Oct 07, 2008 11:38 AM

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I am actually surprised that so many of you don't want kids

CloudNine Posted: Oct 07, 2008 12:46 PM

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honeymoon babies for us! FH has 2 little boys already (3 and 5) so he told me we can have them whenever i am ready. i want 1 or 2 and i'll be 28 when we get married so i wanna get working on that

DnT2010 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 01:38 PM

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Posted by RitasEngaged

I am actually surprised that so many of you don't want kids

i know.. me too! this is so surprising! not that its a bad thing..

i want kids.. always have. i love kids and i want as many as we can afford. as far as when we will have them.. i would say as soon as we are financially stable, in a home and i have tenure (teacher) then its baby time!!

Opera_Ghost Posted: Oct 07, 2008 01:40 PM

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Never. Absolutely no kids.

Nurse12985 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 01:43 PM

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I always wanted 4 but we'll see! FH thinks two is fine as long as he gets his boy. We want to buy a house first but plan on doing that right before the wedding. We will prob wait 2 years after the wedding before TTC.

Nrauch8191 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 01:47 PM

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I will also have honeymoon babies. I will be 35. I would like two or three kids. Whatever I am blessed with...

TessMike621 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 01:49 PM

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i definitely want kids so does fh....we are in no rush, we will probably start about 2 yrs after we get married...we want kids but not right now...but definitely start at around 28 (we will be 25 when we get married)

DnT2010 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 01:50 PM

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

Never. Absolutely no kids.

Opera_Ghost Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:04 PM

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Posted by DnT2010

Posted by Opera_Ghost

Never. Absolutely no kids.

I'm just not a kid person. Never have been, don't think I ever will.

I am evening banning children from my wedding. No kids invited!

DnT2010 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:14 PM

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

Posted by DnT2010

Posted by Opera_Ghost

Never. Absolutely no kids.

I'm just not a kid person. Never have been, don't think I ever will.

I am evening banning children from my wedding. No kids invited!

hilarious.
totally fine.. at least you recognize that you dont like kids now rather than have them and hate them after.. ha

Dazzlin217 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:16 PM

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Posted by christine2010

Posted by Dazzlin217

We both want kids. but i want them so bad. i cant wait to have them. I really dont know how many. FH says 3 but yea i am not too sure about that. we will see. only time can tell.

don't have 3. then one will have middle child syndrome. lol.. i am a middle child & i hate it

oh i have the middle child syndrome too. i feel like i have it to the extreme..lol

FutureMrs.M Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:41 PM

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both FH and i want kids but the number is a bit of a disagreement...I want 1 or 2 (depending on what we can afford and what lifestyle we want.) while he wants 2-3. I totally dont want three because middle child syndrome sI_Icks!!!

FutureMrs.M Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:42 PM

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but we are in no rush either

Rosa29 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:50 PM

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We are going to wait about 2 years. Fh wants 2 but I would go for 3,4 maybe even 5 lol!!!! Who knows 3 psychics I have been to said I was was having twin girls

BluAngel93 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 02:51 PM

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

[I am evening banning children from my wedding. No kids invited!

I'm with you on that last part, we're definitely anti-kid for the wedding guest list

christine2010 Posted: Oct 07, 2008 03:27 PM

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Posted by BluAngel93

Posted by Opera_Ghost

[I am evening banning children from my wedding. No kids invited!

I'm with you on that last part, we're definitely anti-kid for the wedding guest list

we also cut out kids from our guest list. (except my 2 nieces & nephew) because my parents didn't wanna pay $80 per kid for them not to eat anything.