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NWR- having kids??

christine2010 Posted:

NWR- having kids??

i know its a little early to be talking about this but, when is everyone planning on having kids?? what makes you think this way??

FallBride2010 Posted:

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I dont have any intention of having them. FH has two that live with us...which is more than I can handle. : ) I also never had a strong desire to be a mom...I still dont. And if I dont by 31 yrs old...not sure I ever will

bkbaby4life Posted:

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i have a STRONG desire to have tons of...........................................................................................................dogs. :) i have one now and i want more. kids....eh....i'm sure i'll have one or two lol. i know i want them....i just dont know when. maybe 4 or 5 years from now. who knows. :)

what about you??
amandah75 Posted:

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Nope none, nada. Not having kids. FH has 5 year old son from previous marriage that he has joint custody of so he's with us 50% of the time. I enjoy the set up, don't want kids at 33 when I have plans on moving and possibly going back to school. We'll just adopt puppies
grkbarbie Posted:

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1 is all i want.. b4 im 30.. im scared lol

christine2010 Posted:

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i always wanted to have a kid or 2. i used to tell FH that we would have one right after we got married because my brother has three kids who are already 7, 4, & 1 & i want my kids to be close with their cousins. however since i am graduating school this june i feel that having a kid right after we got married wouldn't really help my career. plus i would like to have a house prior to having a kid & i don't think that is going to happen until a couple of years after we are married. but i also don't want to wait until i am 30 to have a kid. so i am very confused.

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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I definitely want kids. My max is 4. FH wants kids to. He had 5 nephews and is so good with them. That is one of the qualities I love about him, he is gonna be a great father. We decided we are going to wait a few years after were married though. We want to travel and enjoy married life a bit.

FallBride2010 Posted:

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Posted by amandah75

Nope none, nada. Not having kids. FH has 5 year old son from previous marriage that he has joint custody of so he's with us 50% of the time. I enjoy the set up, don't want kids at 33 when I have plans on moving and possibly going back to school. We'll just adopt puppies



i like the set-up too. i enjoy being 'kid-free' every other weekend. : )
grrulz Posted:

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I am gong to have my kids like 3 years after i get married FH and i can't wait!
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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I really want my first child to be adopted so to do that I need to make sure that we have a home and are set financially before we do that...So i am figuring frist child sometime around 30....
BUT FH wants our first child to be our own, so if he gets his way (which who knows how things will turn out) we will probably have our own kid by the time I am 27. I want to be married 2 at least two years before we start to try....I have some crazy travel plans in our future.
Goldie39 Posted:

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I only want 1 or 2. Raising kids is no joke. my brother and sister are 7 and there is a 16 year gap inbetween us so I feel like i've practically raised them. I mean, I want to see what me and FH can produce , but I want to wait another 4 or 5 years.

The world is not ready for me to be preggers. I'm not a bridezilla but I can't say that I won't be a pregant womanzilla.
BluAngel93 Posted:

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Soooo not anywhere near being ready to have kids yet...i'm still adjusting to the huge-ness that marriage will entail! I know FH and i would like to have 1 or 2 somewhere down the line, but i feel like it's definitely far off for us...he'll make a great dad though, so no worries in that department.

Oh yeah, and i'm also extremely not excited for the idea of being pregnant...if i could find a way to have the kid be ours biologically without actually having to endure those 9 months, that would be awesome....maybe if we wait long enough, that'll be possible! For now, we're perfectly happy with our beagle
JenBill61210 Posted:

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I will prob wait a year before trying, but FH and I haven't really discussed it. I guess we will have to see where we are financially too

RitasEngaged Posted:

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We will probably only have 1 - maybe 2. I always wanted 3 than I changed my mind to 2 but financially I think we can only have 1. Now I feel like I only want one anyway because I don't have patience anymore. I am one of 7 so definately won't have that.

I really want to start a year after we are married, FH wants to start in 5 years so i know that will be a huge fight.

I really want a son. I want no part of a daughter!!
JenBill61210 Posted:

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Posted by RitasEngaged

We will probably only have 1 - maybe 2. I always wanted 3 than I changed my mind to 2 but financially I think we can only have 1. Now I feel like I only want one anyway because I don't have patience anymore. I am one of 7 so definately won't have that.

I really want to start a year after we are married, FH wants to start in 5 years so i know that will be a huge fight.

I really want a son. I want no part of a daughter!!



LOL my FH is the same way. He said we are having 2 boys.. im like Yeahhh ok..
Dazzlin217 Posted:

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We both want kids. but i want them so bad. i cant wait to have them. I really dont know how many. FH says 3 but yea i am not too sure about that. we will see. only time can tell.

rocketsummer17 Posted:

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Posted by jenny8484


Posted by RitasEngaged

We will probably only have 1 - maybe 2. I always wanted 3 than I changed my mind to 2 but financially I think we can only have 1. Now I feel like I only want one anyway because I don't have patience anymore. I am one of 7 so definately won't have that.

I really want to start a year after we are married, FH wants to start in 5 years so i know that will be a huge fight.

I really want a son. I want no part of a daughter!!



LOL my FH is the same way. He said we are having 2 boys.. im like Yeahhh ok..


thats funny your FH's onyl want boys, my FH wants girls so badly!!!
bkbaby4life Posted:

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Posted by jenny8484


Posted by RitasEngaged

We will probably only have 1 - maybe 2. I always wanted 3 than I changed my mind to 2 but financially I think we can only have 1. Now I feel like I only want one anyway because I don't have patience anymore. I am one of 7 so definately won't have that.

I really want to start a year after we are married, FH wants to start in 5 years so i know that will be a huge fight.

I really want a son. I want no part of a daughter!!



LOL my FH is the same way. He said we are having 2 boys.. im like Yeahhh ok..



lol FH always says 'if we have a boy first we are only having one kid. if we have a girl we're just gonna keep going...'
T E R I Posted:

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I don't really see any kids in my future. I don't really have that have to have kids urge and either does FH-we just say if it happens, it happens. I'd rather just spoil neices and nephew

christine2010 Posted:

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Posted by rocketsummer17


Posted by jenny8484


Posted by RitasEngaged

We will probably only have 1 - maybe 2. I always wanted 3 than I changed my mind to 2 but financially I think we can only have 1. Now I feel like I only want one anyway because I don't have patience anymore. I am one of 7 so definately won't have that.

I really want to start a year after we are married, FH wants to start in 5 years so i know that will be a huge fight.

I really want a son. I want no part of a daughter!!



LOL my FH is the same way. He said we are having 2 boys.. im like Yeahhh ok..


thats funny your FH's onyl want boys, my FH wants girls so badly!!!



my FH says we wont stop until we have a boy. yeah right thats not going to happen.

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