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NWR- How do you handle frustration?

CubanBride Posted: Oct 28, 2004 02:59 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 02:59 PM

NWR- How do you handle frustration?

How do you handle people and situations that annoy and frustrate you? The people at my job, sometimes I want to plunge a steak kjnife through their chests. How do I stop myself from doing that? LOL!

DMcK Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:06 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:06 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

I hate that feeling! I either write the person who is annoying me a letter that I never intend to send then rip it to shreds or go for a walk. Hope one of those helps! Try to remember to breathe

alexlynn7 Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:08 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:08 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

best frustration relief for me is a run, preferably outside but the treadmill will do. running for me is like meditation. basically, anything that is meditative for you will help with frustration...

RVCBride Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:17 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:17 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

Hate to sound a bit like an alcoholic, but best frustration relief to me is a stiff martini at the end of the day with my FI. I also like to run and talk everything out with ppl.

When I am frustrated with SOMEONE, that person is confronted almost immediately. I do however believe in choosing your battles, which ultimately means I weed out things that I won't allow myself to get too frustrated over. I am practical person that puts a lot into account when deciding how my feelings are towards a situation.

CubanBride Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:21 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:21 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

Posted by RVCBride

Hate to sound a bit like an alcoholic, but best frustration relief to me is a stiff martini at the end of the day with my FI. I also like to run and talk everything out with ppl.

When I am frustrated with SOMEONE, that person is confronted almost immediately. I do however believe in choosing your battles, which ultimately means I weed out things that I won't allow myself to get too frustrated over. I am practical person that puts a lot into account when deciding how my feelings are towards a situation.

So, does that translate into:

Get Drunk
Beat the crap out of the person annoying you

Cause if it does, I can totally do that.

RVCBride Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:29 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:29 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

Cuban Bride, you're too funny

I knew it was going to sound a bit harmful!

No let me now interpret

I meant that after a long day of frustration with everything, I enjoy a drink every once in awhile

The confrontation with people (unrelated to the drinking part completely) is done sober and should be. Drinking and confrontations can lead to bad nights..Trust me.

diamondgrlie Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:37 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:37 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

I have also been known to laugh and smile to hide my anger and then drink and drink on the weekend and then Monday I am like a clean slate.

gtsgirl Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:40 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 03:40 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

I sing a song..Like

'The dork (ha ha) around the corner won't shut the ---- up and his voice is so annoying I want to punch his lights out, do da, do da' etc..

Hopefully they hear me

ckgmwedding Posted: Oct 28, 2004 05:26 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 05:26 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

Ok this is fun and shows my true psychopath tendencies. I look calm on the outside and smiling but secretly I imagine myself taking sharp knives and stabbing their face as they are talking. This is reserved for those that really make me insane however. I really am normal, promise

SFP0214 Posted: Oct 28, 2004 05:40 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 05:40 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

Ummm I usuall yell at Fh... okay only somtimes.. but usually he does he fare share of annoying me when I am in a bad mood.

Umm really... I call my moh and ***** to her. That usually does it. If not... I am all for the drinking!

SFP0214 Posted: Oct 28, 2004 05:41 PM+

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Posted: Oct 28, 2004 05:41 PM

Re: NWR- How do you handle frustration?

Posted by ckgmwedding

Ok this is fun and shows my true psychopath tendencies. I look calm on the outside and smiling but secretly I imagine myself taking sharp knives and stabbing their face as they are talking. This is reserved for those that really make me insane however. I really am normal, promise

Okay since we are showing our psychopath sides... Umm I yell at them when I am in my car.. alone.... Did i just type that!?