NWR: Just curious...do you have problem with DH/FH if you go out with friends?
Original post by dfw343
I don't. We always check with each other to see what is going on first. Even though sometimes we only get really one or two alone nights of nothing..we still like to do stuff with our friends. A lot of my friends don't do this and are with each other 24-7.
I feel you still need to be you.
Like tonight H is going out with a buddy. I will go to gym. Tomorrow I am going out with friend. He will go to gym. Next week I have a friend in town Wed. He may go out Thurs.
Thoughts?
FallBride2010
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No, not usually. FH has two kids...so out of courtesy we try to give each other a heads up b/c that means one of us is home with them and cant do anything
Danielle soon to be mrs b
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Posted by AwaitingAugust
it really depends on the person ...
FH and I have about one day per week where we hang out with our friends but we usually coordinate with one another to make sure that we both have plans together (so one of us isn't left home alone)
same for us too...we both like going out separately with our friends and we know it's obvi healthy for us too, but if we can, we'll try to coordinate so that we're going out on the same night
flibbertigibbet
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FH and I do 99% of our social things together.
That might change once we move in together.
We both work a LOT during the week and just sort of like to veg out at the end of the day. And we spend our weekends either at my house or his house... so we are with one another from Friday night til Sunday afternoon.
We try to hang out with couples we like.
We are accepting applications for new couple-friends.
Applications only accepted from extremely awesome people.
MerSaysEh
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Posted by weddingbees
FH and I do 99% of our social things together.
That might change once we move in together.
We both work a LOT during the week and just sort of like to veg out at the end of the day. And we spend our weekends either at my house or his house... so we are with one another from Friday night til Sunday afternoon.
We try to hang out with couples we like.
We are accepting applications for new couple-friends.
Applications only accepted from extremely awesome people.
we are applying for this opening and look forward to hearing from you soon for an interview
flibbertigibbet
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... send carbs. we both love food.
dfw343
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Posted by weddingbees
FH and I do 99% of our social things together.
That might change once we move in together.
We both work a LOT during the week and just sort of like to veg out at the end of the day. And we spend our weekends either at my house or his house... so we are with one another from Friday night til Sunday afternoon.
We try to hang out with couples we like.
We are accepting applications for new couple-friends.
Applications only accepted from extremely awesome people.
I would like to apply. My friends never want to do anything. And these are couples with no kids!!!!!!
dfw343
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Posted by FallBride2010
No, not usually. FH has two kids...so out of courtesy we try to give each other a heads up b/c that means one of us is home with them and cant do anything
I understand...we aren't custodial so it's easier.
Thats-What-She-Said
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Honestly it is rare that I meet up with my friends, they all have families and are really busy. FH and I spend most of our time together and have since the first day we started dating. We do go out separately, and I don't have a problem with it, it just doesn't happen often.
wenR
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same here. we liv togethr so were togethr 24/7 but evry other week one of us has somthing to do that doeos not involve the other. we often go out with our friends.
JAAMS
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Yeah, we do. We don't check with each other. I mean, we tell each other, but don't check with each other. If one of us has to chill at home and watch TV by him/herself, it isn't a big deal.
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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i haven't done stuff w friends in years lol. Ill go for dinner/drinks maybe once every few months. Same for FH. Not bc he'd get mad, hell practically push me out the door to get me out I'm sure. and if he wants to go out alone, I have no problem w it. I enjoy being home alone sometimes.
I really enjoy being w him 24/7. I even get sad when I'm not. He's not only the love of my life, but my buddy, my partner in crime.
ETA: this is after 7yrs of dating and 4yrs of living together
christine2010
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DH does things with just the guys atleast 2 times a week & I enjoy being home those nights with the apartment to myself. Its really different for us. None of DHs friends are married or even in relationships for that matter. Meanwhile all of my friends are married & most of them have kids. As long as he lets me know in advance I have no problem with it. Actually I don't even mind if he lets me know last minute, as long as he lets me know.
Lil OC
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no problems here. He works 2 nights a week where I dont see him, plus he plays hockey 4 days a week and then will hang out with friends once in a while. I go away with my friends every so often for random vacations and I go out with my friends for dinner, etc. about 2 nights a week. We are independent people and respect that about each other
Clover23
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We don't have problems usually. The only time a problem arises is if his BFF comes into town at the last minute and we had already planned to do something together. If it's something important, there's usually a little argument. If we had just planned to spend the night at home together, it's not an issue.
