ok so FH and I have had this house in mind that we always wanted to buy. its finally up on the market. we want to buy it and FH says that he can make the payments, but i dont know i just have this knot in my stomach. i guess i feel bad that he will be making most of the payments, i dont have a great job, and i dont make to much a week. i dont know what to feel. ugh. this stinks. he really wants the house and so do i. growing up stinks!!
what would you do? buy the house or no?
es2189
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you're getting married! him making payments is the same as you making payments. if you guys can afford it, and love the house, then go for it.
SoonToBMrsC
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you're getting married! him making payments is the same as you making payments. if you guys can afford it, and love the house, then go for it.
ITA! It's not like you guys are just dating. I see it as when you are married whats mine is yours, I know not everyone thinks like that but it's not like your forcing him to spend his money, he's wants to do it! I'm sure you chip in with what you can anyway. I say if you love it then do it, you may regret passing up this chance if you don't get it.
