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NWR MOH Issue

JESMO Posted:

NWR MOH Issue

Sorry ladies for sometimes posting some personal things here. It has to do mainly with the fact that I really don't have girlfriends like that (I do have 2 close friends) but they are sleeping...and probably cant relate.

Anyways, I am very upset and disappointed with my sister. We use to be close and tell eachother everything. However for the past couple of months, she has changed. She has started going out with this guy since May and since then, HE has been her top priority. I didnt like the guy and now I have valid reasons. He has cheated and insulted her several times and she is Blind! My parents told her and I did too and she says 'it my life and I need to make decisions whether they are good or bad' (what about ur a dumbass)

He then broke up withh her and my cousin who use to be friends with him told me that he knows why (he wants to do his thing but keep my sister on the side) I told her that and doesn't believe me and tells me that no matter what she's not going to leave him. (To be honest he's not all that either)

Ever since that dude , me and my sis are not the same. I try hard to make our relationship work but bc I don't approve of him...she's like distant from me.
It makes me very upset, sad and frustrated bc my sister doesn't want to open her eyes!!!!!! And she doesn't even believe her own family!!! BTW he has been telling ppl he is not with my sister and yet keeps on calling her.

She's suppose to be my MOH but how things are looking so far...um afaid that ima have to tell her to step down....its going to hurt me and kill me inside but she's already doing so by putting that fucker first!

Sorry for the long reading....I'm just hurt right now..thanks ladies.
violet0711 Posted:

NWR MOH Issue

Aww..I'm so sorry to hear this. It sucks. I think you should have a heartfelt one on one with your sister to let her know how you're feeling. If she doesn't seem to care how her actions are affecting you, then you should ask her to step down as MOH. It's a tough situation and feelings will get hurt, but you have to do what's best for you.

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

NWR MOH Issue

Aww! I am sorry you are dealing with this. Honestly, I can relate because your sister was me many years ago. I was with a real POS and unfortunately no matter who told me and what they told me I wouldn't listen. I was so wrapped up in him that I neglected everyone, even myself! Being in that situation, I wish, really, really, really wish I had listened because it was the WORST 5 years of my life. I really hope and pray your sister comes around. I would say keep pressing her but the more my family did that with me the closer they drove me to him so I would just speak your mind so she knows how you feel but let her do her thing, in time (hopefully soon) she will realize this isn't the smartest decision.

JESMO Posted:

NWR MOH Issue

Thank you ladies! and @soon2bemrspy WOW! hopefully she does..the sooner the better!

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