Post New Topic

NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!

CandB4604 Posted:

NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!

...kay, so just now my manager just gave me and the other girl I work with a gift bag for christmas filled with holiday cookies, and an envelope/card with a $50 bill in it, as a thank you for the holidays. I'm like flipping out because I need this and am so excited bcause I didnt' expect to get anything from her and it's $50, which is very nice.

But - then we go back to our desks, and the girl I work with whispers, 'so, you think we should get her something?' and hesitating, i just said yes, but I'm pissed b/c i dont' want to spend what she just gave us!! Because then what was the point of getting that!?

And she's like, 'Should we get her $100 gift card to a spa?' And my heart sank because that's just handing over the $50 bill I just got!! So yadda yadda I decided to say that 'we really shouldn't give her what she gave us because that's almost weird. It's like we used her money to get her something.' So she goes, 'Okay, so $75?' I just said, okay, but that's basically $40 each!!! $40 of the $50 I just got!!!

What should I do! I really wanted to use that money for something besides giving it right back to my manager!!!

Do I just have to?I just feel like if we think of a better idea, I can go to Molly before the end of the day and say, 'Hey - I was thinking about Kathleen's present and I think maybe instead we should do this...' Like maybe just a card from each of us and a bottle of wine!?!? Help me!!!
MrsCastanedain09 Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!

You're the boss' subordinate. A gift of equal value is not expected.

I would suggest either baking some cookies or buying some cupcakes or pastries- have them arranged all pretty and write a heartfelt thank you card wishing her all the best in the New Year.

It's like when you tip someone- do they tip back? No.
futuremrsfab Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!

honestly, I am a manager, and I always give my staff a gift- but I would be mad if they spent anything on me. If you want to get her a small token thats fine- like a manicure gift certificate or small ornament- that would be better.

CandB4604 Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!


Posted by futuremrsfab

honestly, I am a manager, and I always give my staff a gift- but I would be mad if they spent anything on me. If you want to get her a small token thats fine- like a manicure gift certificate or small ornament- that would be better.



Ok great. Thank you! I was thinking about doing a nice bottle of wine and I already wrote her a really nice card.
futuremrsfab Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!


Posted by CandB4604


Posted by futuremrsfab

honestly, I am a manager, and I always give my staff a gift- but I would be mad if they spent anything on me. If you want to get her a small token thats fine- like a manicure gift certificate or small ornament- that would be better.



Ok great. Thank you! I was thinking about doing a nice bottle of wine and I already wrote her a really nice card.



thats perfect and she will appreciate the thought!
CandB4604 Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!

Thank you so much -this is why i love LIW!!!

lauraandrob2009 Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!

I would just give a card - as a manager, you aren't supposed to spend what they did.

sharivera Posted:

Re: NWR: Need a quick opinion! help!


Posted by CandB4604


Posted by futuremrsfab

honestly, I am a manager, and I always give my staff a gift- but I would be mad if they spent anything on me. If you want to get her a small token thats fine- like a manicure gift certificate or small ornament- that would be better.



Ok great. Thank you! I was thinking about doing a nice bottle of wine and I already wrote her a really nice card.



That would be perfect...and if you know what kind of wine she likes , even better!

Reply to this topic

Log in to reply or quote a post.